You know that type..

Hey guys, brand new on the forum, just had to join because of the huge range of topics and seems MOST of ya' are top guys

Alright, basically I'm in a relationship with this girl, you know the type, lovable, loving, caring, perfect in every way BUT do not know their stance on sex and really don't seem the type to be an addict. She's part of a really tight friendship group of me, her and a couple of mates which complicates things if I screw up by asking the wrong question. We're both 18 and don't get me wrong, I've had my fair share of bedroom bangs and had another sorta similiar girl in the past (but after a couple of months things sorta developed on their own - was annoying and tedious trying to guess what was going on though which is why I'm asking stuff now). The real point i'm trying to get to is: how the hell do I find out more, if she's really going to be into it or want it anytime soon or if it's going to be a purely love-based relationship for AGES before anything happens. I'm not a sex maniac or anything, I'd just like to find out.

Any tips would be handy, stupid replies will be dealt with pointy objects shoved up asses

 

As you said, your both 18. Don't take it too seriously.

 

Not really trying to, i'm just the sort of person who likes to know what's going on and where everything stands if you get my drift.

 

most of us are equipped with this wonderful little device called vocal cords which allow the art of communication. If you in fact have vocal cords and she has working ears then perhaps what would be best is to ask her what the intention is and what she sees as the situation. If this is not the case, you could perhaps write to her or hand signal.

Also, knowing her history will give you insight into her thinking and values.

 

oh so true but as I said above, I really don't want to screw things up as the results would be pretty f*cked up and I don't want to go leaping into something that she may not be looking at right now.

 

I think there are an equal number of tops and bottoms.

 

18 is not the time to concentrate on learning how to effectively communicate in a relationship, that shit is so gay even we dont do it

Go out and so that seed till 25 at least otherwise you are just going to end up resenting who ever you do end up with. Trust me on this one, the straight guys that didnt get enough under 25 always end up turning into whiney bitches

 

thanks for the advice and comments guys

 

I really don't get what the big deal with asking her is =P

And don't listen to Vanilla Gorilla, it's the straight guys that didn't get ANY before they were 25 that turn into whiny bitches - and you can get yours and communicate at the same time imagine that!

 

guess I just gotta harden the f*ck up and ask and hope to hell I don't screw up our relationship and mess everything up with my best mates! That wasn't intended in a sarcastic way, by the way.