Why??? Please explain it to me... Please!!!

Discussion in 'Women's Forum' started by thesaint, Aug 14, 2009.

  1. thesaint

    thesaint Member

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    Aright so a couple of days ago i was on the train goin to work and then a couple walked in...

    The girl was like a cross between Megan fox and Jessica alba i mean realy hot... six pack(i could tell), great hair, amazing legs... yea that hot.

    Here's the problem the guy was no where in her range... i think i was better looking than him... way better.

    my question is why do ladies date guys that arent in their league, i mean really this girl could be dating a brad pit look alike. detailed explanations please ime slow lol.
     
  2. sophieclair

    sophieclair Senior Member

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    Well, maybe he has an amazing personality. He could also be packing were it counts. Never under estimate the power of a big one. She could think he is really hot and like the way he looks. Are you sure it was her boyfriend? Maybe it was just a family member.

    Other then that I don't know.
     
  3. TheMadcapSyd

    TheMadcapSyd Titanic's captain, yo!

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    Well there's that thing called personality, you'd be surprised, it goes a long way
     
  4. Lea

    Lea Member

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    Personality. I couldn't give a fig for looks. I go for personality every time.
     
  5. FireflyInTheDark

    FireflyInTheDark Sell-out with a Heart of Gold

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    Some people don't look at a person they've fallen in love with, realize he is not a "Brad Pitt look-alike" and think, "I can do better."
    Love is blind, dear.
    "You don't love her because she's beautiful. She's beautiful because you love her."
    Some people never mature enough to understand this.
     
  6. Fingermouse

    Fingermouse Helicase

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    When are you shallowness trolls going to piss off?
    There are SO many of you and it's getting so old
     
  7. FireflyInTheDark

    FireflyInTheDark Sell-out with a Heart of Gold

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  8. Vanilla Gorilla

    Vanilla Gorilla Go Ape

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    Hmmmm, so you post a thread asking why a hot girl was with a certain guy and you give no description of said guy other than you think you are way hotter than him.


    EPIC fail of a thread
     
  9. Zorba The Grape

    Zorba The Grape Gavagai?

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    This entire thread is completely retarded. There are a thousand different reasons why she might be going out with a guy you think is ugly, the most likely of which have already been stated. I wouldn't personally try to analyze the relationship of some strangers I saw on a train, being that you have no idea what kind of connection they have.
     
  10. thesaint

    thesaint Member

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    lol... so i guess most women go for personality... and ime pretty sure they werent family cause they were all over each other...

    but anyways guys

    HAPPY WOODSTOCK DAY!!!!
     
  11. deleted

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    its her brother yuo idiot!!! ..
     
  12. scatteredleaves

    scatteredleaves Smelly Hobo

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    agree.
     
  13. MysteriousNight

    MysteriousNight Member

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    Confidence works better than looks.
     
  14. Lillith1986

    Lillith1986 Member

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    Maybe he made her laugh all the time...Works for me!!
     
  15. Stillravenmad

    Stillravenmad Member

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    There are lots of reasons women date men. Besides, what does attractive mean? The whole thing is subjective.
     
  16. MissBHave

    MissBHave insert clever phrase here

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    this^^
     
  17. babyjay

    babyjay Senior Member

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    are you sure they were actually together?

    but if they were, then it could definately be personality, money, etc.

    girls seem to be more interested in different guys, than they used to be.c:
     
  18. fluttersteke

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    There are 3 possible reasons why she was with this guy.

    1) The realistic reason- He has a great personality. Yes, that does go a long way. There is probably a connection between them and they're just right for each other.

    2) She dates down. Yes, there are girls who do this. They just don't trust a lot of guys so they will date someone who is unattractive cause they think there is less of a chance that the guy will cheat on them and/or break their heart.

    3) He has money and she's either a gold digger or an upscale prostitute. Which in my opinion, a gold digger is an escort/prostitute. She sleeps with someone and possibly marries them not because she loves them but in return she gets diamonds, money, fancy cars, security and all that fancy stuff. Watch the Girls Next Door and you'll know what I mean.

    But also, "attractive" is different for everyone. I think my boyfriend is hotter than Brad Pitt. Brad Pitt's okay but really if he was just some normal guy walking down the street I probably wouldn't glance his way unless he looked the way he did in Fight Club. lol. But Brad Pitt just isn't really my type. Maybe the guy she was with is her type. Maybe she likes nerdy guys. Or hairy guys or someone who looks like Carot Top. People like different things.
     
  19. weeattoes

    weeattoes what will be, will be

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    Well i don't think that i am like super pretty but i am told i am often and none of my boyfriends have been like sexy models or "brad pitt look a likes"
    But i prefer to not date peopel like that.. I like tall lanky, or "hippie."

    I honestly date guys for personality and whatnot.. The most in looks that i really look for is nice facial feature like i love a sexy jaw structure, nice eyes, and smile.. But those are just bonuses.

    I love a guy that has a great personality and i loook for what we have in common.. not just based on looks and good sex is a great bonus also. :p

    So maybe she likes something simular to me?
     
  20. LauraMay

    LauraMay Rainbow Humper

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    I have to agree 100% with this guy/girl.
     

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