Would you be disappointed if you never had kids?

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  1. bird_migration

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    You probably would have friends instead and thus a fun life.
     
  2. daisymae

    daisymae Senior Member

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    I have friends, bird. You are my friend. I have almost got you tracked down and we will be together soon...whoops, I've said too much...
     
  3. bird_migration

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    No, you wear too much....
     
  4. weeattoes

    weeattoes what will be, will be

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    I would be sad cause i really do want kids one day.
    I want two of my own and i want to adopt one. :)
     
  5. TheAbominableIronSloth

    TheAbominableIronSloth Banned

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    I'll probably bite the bullet and take the plunge one day. I've considered suicide when I finally decide to 'give up' on everything (at 30 of course), but now that's changed to 'nah, just have kids'. Or 'eh, get married'. In other words, I'll be slightly disappointed in myself... but it's a good kind of disappointment.
     
  6. NotDeadYet

    NotDeadYet Not even close.

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    Yes. That's one of the reasons why I haven't done it.
     
  7. blackcat666

    blackcat666 Senior Member

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    well i'm almost 53 years old. that is old enough to be a grandfather, great grandfather and, even a great great grandfather (shit, i'm such an old fart! how did that ever happen)?

    i have never had kids, or at least, as far as i know of; and, i have never been married either.
    after what i went through with my so called "parents" there, is no way in hell or heaven i would do either!
    i'm just scared shitless of fucking the kids up so badly as, my "parents" did me and my brother and sister. my brother, father and, sister all committed suicide.
    i know what i'm about to say is not fair to everyone who has childern, in my case though, childern are better off not being born. for me not having childern is an act of to childern.
    i'm sure most of you don't understand what i mean and thats ok; you would have had been in my shoes growing up to understand my position on having childern of my own.
    i'm happy for those of you who do want childern... good luck to you all!
     
  8. Greengirl

    Greengirl Senior Member

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    no, not really. i don`t think or care about kids at all.at least for now i don`t.
     
  9. lode

    lode Banned

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    Odds are pretty good I have a few bastards running around out there.
     
  10. fitzy21

    fitzy21 Worst RT Mod EVAH!!!!

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    yes, it'd be a reason to commit suicide
     
  11. Catiegb

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    hell no
     
  12. AquaLight

    AquaLight Senior Member

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    I wouldn't mind having a kid in the future if my situation and the surrounding environment then is adequate and healthy.
     
  13. vigilanteherbalist2

    vigilanteherbalist2 Senior Member

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  14. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    I might be...I love my nephew so much and having my own kid would be just...amazing, that maternal bond. But I don't know, maybe I'm not cut out for it.
     
  15. Kinky Ramona

    Kinky Ramona Back by popular demand!

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    Yes...I want a baby. And I have tons of pressure from the elders to make them a grandbaby. Eeep.
     
  16. ruski

    ruski Senior Member

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    yeah i'd be upset if i missed out on having kids. i think i'd be a good mum.
     
  17. Penny

    Penny Supermoderaginaire

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    lemme put it this way.. I don't wanna have kids unless I'm settled somewhere, with a decent wage, and a significant other who'll be the father..

    I'd be more disappointed not to reach the previously stated goal.

    which could then lead to kids.

    sure I might want kids. it depends on a lot of things though..

    but if someone told me I could NEVER have kids because of a uterus problem or something.. I'd be very depressed, I think.
     
  18. la Principessa

    la Principessa Member since '08

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    same here
     
  19. Hilder

    Hilder The Ganja Queen

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    No, I wouldnt be disappointed. I dont want to birth a child. Ideally, Id like to adopt, but that probably wont happen either.. I have my niece and im sure future nieces and or nephews to love and spoil and when they start to cry or whine, I can hand them off.. best thing ever.
     
  20. Face Eater

    Face Eater Banned

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    Slightly.

    Having kids by accident would be more disappointing though.
     

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