I have friends, bird. You are my friend. I have almost got you tracked down and we will be together soon...whoops, I've said too much...
I'll probably bite the bullet and take the plunge one day. I've considered suicide when I finally decide to 'give up' on everything (at 30 of course), but now that's changed to 'nah, just have kids'. Or 'eh, get married'. In other words, I'll be slightly disappointed in myself... but it's a good kind of disappointment.
well i'm almost 53 years old. that is old enough to be a grandfather, great grandfather and, even a great great grandfather (shit, i'm such an old fart! how did that ever happen)? i have never had kids, or at least, as far as i know of; and, i have never been married either. after what i went through with my so called "parents" there, is no way in hell or heaven i would do either! i'm just scared shitless of fucking the kids up so badly as, my "parents" did me and my brother and sister. my brother, father and, sister all committed suicide. i know what i'm about to say is not fair to everyone who has childern, in my case though, childern are better off not being born. for me not having childern is an act of to childern. i'm sure most of you don't understand what i mean and thats ok; you would have had been in my shoes growing up to understand my position on having childern of my own. i'm happy for those of you who do want childern... good luck to you all!
I wouldn't mind having a kid in the future if my situation and the surrounding environment then is adequate and healthy.
I might be...I love my nephew so much and having my own kid would be just...amazing, that maternal bond. But I don't know, maybe I'm not cut out for it.
lemme put it this way.. I don't wanna have kids unless I'm settled somewhere, with a decent wage, and a significant other who'll be the father.. I'd be more disappointed not to reach the previously stated goal. which could then lead to kids. sure I might want kids. it depends on a lot of things though.. but if someone told me I could NEVER have kids because of a uterus problem or something.. I'd be very depressed, I think.
No, I wouldnt be disappointed. I dont want to birth a child. Ideally, Id like to adopt, but that probably wont happen either.. I have my niece and im sure future nieces and or nephews to love and spoil and when they start to cry or whine, I can hand them off.. best thing ever.