I have a question for mostly GIRLS... Guys can give their input as well, but please specify if you're a guy. Background information: A girl is dating a guy. The girl is rather thin and has A cup breasts. Okay, so in the "hypothetical" situation: Boyfriend: *touches his girlfriend's boobs* Bystander: "Don't grab where there is nothing." Boyfriend: *laughs* "Yeah... there's nothing there." And later on at some point: Girlfriend: "I have to go get some food" Boyfriend: "You need to get some boobs" So the question is... Does the girl have a right to be angry at this boyfriend? Tell me, is it not a known fact that making fun of a body part on a girl that she might have "shortcomings" with is a HORRIBLE idea? Does this guy deserve to be slapped? Let me know your opinions. EDIT: This is in the wrong section I just realized, but I can't seem to delete it. :[
Sounds like a rude boyfriend. He should jump with joy at the fact that he even gets access to your boobs at all.
Slapping someone constitutes an escalation to physical violence, no matter what the "cultural norms". If someone offends you with words, you should remain on the higher ground, and simply disassociate yourself from the offending party, unless you have the will and the ability to verbally confront the offender with his wrong, as well as a willingness to forgive in the case of remorse. It's arrogant and rude to assume that you've been assigned the job of "punisher", just because you're an offended woman. What right does a woman have, over a man, to escalate to violence, and not expect the same in return? It's a double standard. Total b.s. in my opinion, bitches getting off slapping people at will. Fuck 'em. Talk it out, or walk away. Anger is justified. Resorting to violence is not, no matter what the verbal abuse. However, on the woman's side: If the woman sincerely wishes the man to face up to his offense on the field of honor, she needs firstly to find a "champion" to defend her honor. Let her chosen champion take the somabitch out in the alley and let the two of them have a straight-up duel, fists, knives, or brickbats. It's chivalrous. For this very matter, every woman needs to have a champion in mind. UNLESS: If the woman is a black-belt in some form of martial arts, and capable of ass-whupping the dude herself, let her challenge the offender to go out back and handle it between the two of them. In order to initiate this process, the woman needs to carry a glove in her handbag, one which is specifically reserved to use in such an occasion, to strike the man across the face. In this way, the strike is symbolic, and not the same as a strike with her own hand, which might bring immediate retaliation. This symbolic strike, using an appropriately styled glove, sets up the appropriate challenge, in a formally accepted manner. Rules are rules,, edit: See,,you don't want the bar/restaurant/house furniture to get broken up by an immediate fistfight, so taking things out to the field of honor/alley/backyard is much preferrable.
I think its the "alternative lifestyles" part of the header...I know it throws me off...I havent seen a regular "non-alternative-lifestyle " relationship forum section yet
yea that guys dumb. that really shouldnt be a question that would be the equivalent to a girlfriend bashin on her boyfriends penis size. its just not right hahaaaaah peace
Im a guy I am ferry sorry to hear a guy didt that to you, he should not ever have said that. but I do not agree to what he said @ all. a cup is ferry sexy to and im not just saying that. Just be confident about yourself and you should find the right guy that is not like that. I really hope some day somehow karma will let him know what he didt to you, J
A guy here!! The chick should kick the guy to the curb. ASSHOLE!! I love small breasts... A woman should be appriciated for who she is completely.. Breasts included.
Yea this guy does deserve a punch.. better yet for the girl to leave him if this is continues.. Obviously this guy doesn't respect her.
I don't know, I kind of see this as a harmless joke. Breast size doesn't matter at all to me, but I can see myself saying something like that completely in jest. I guess it would depend on whether I thought the girl would be offended or not. My girlfriend wouldn't, but she has pretty big ones anyway
yeah sounds like a lame guy! i agree with mostly everyone. he shouldnt be dissin on your girls! bash on his size and see how he likes it!
Yes I agree with the majority, the guy sounds like a asshole. And he also should have told the other guy to fuck off for saying shit about her chest. I 'm a guy by the way.