Well there's this girl that I've known mutually, per se, for a while. Our parents have been friends but we havnt really talked much. Lately shes been txting me and stuff. She sometimes talks about how she has nobody to go to prom and homecoming with.She basically asked who I'm interested in ( because I guess we talk about those kinds of things) And I told her someone that I didn't want to name( her). I think she kind of got it. We are going to hang out around town soon. What can I do you make sure she notices I'm interested in her without being too straightforward? Also how can I make her interested in me, if she already isn't??? Ok so, I forgot to mention that she has a boyfriend. He is a long ways away. A matter of about 500 miles away... She says they have an "open relationship" and like I said, it seems like she's giving me hints, but how can I be so sure that she is, and not just being herself?
Well, you certainly can't "make" someone interested in you, however it seems like she's trying to drop her own hints to you and let you know that she is. I would say go ahead and be straightforward - there is no secret/magic way, just come out and say that you would like to get to know her better.
Dammit, was hoping someone would be able to provide me with some sort of "Love" elixir. But yeah, like what are some types of hints she's interested in me? Just give me a few examples if you can, please.
In the past, anytime I talked about who I liked with a guy friend, it was always them. So odds are, she is dropping her own hints. Hints are fun, but a little straightforwardness never killed anyone. Although this is a weeeeee bit too straightforward. I'd say just tell her how you feel.
You want me to say i'd love to go out with you and eventually have sex with you? Or is that a bit off coarse?
I forgot to mention this. I mean ive had girlfriends, the usual, you know. But like i've really never felt this around anyone else. When I talk to her, I get really nervous, anyway of avoiding that? lol
Cute. Let her know how you feel. Don't push anything, and don't rush it. You want her to be comfortable around you and for her to trust you.
I mean like I said, ive dated girls before, but they were sort of low standard, you know? And like she's amazingly hot AND nice. So I know girls like confident guys, but im very insecure. I'm so nervous sometimes, I dont even know what to say to her.
Well i would take that seriously and think that "that guy" wanted to go to prom just to have sex or wanted to be around me just to have sex.
