hi im a 17 yr old male and recently i saw an old friend of mine we havent seen each other for 10 yrs. This girl is the same age as me and i really like her now. We started hanging out a lot and we hung out 3 days out of the 5 that i have been acquainted with her since 10 yrs ago. I dnt know if i can consider them dates but the first time we went out we met up at a car show that my town has weekly and we just kinda of walked around and talked kinda catching up i guess then we went out for ice cream and we sat at the ice cream place from 830 pm to 1030 and we sat and talked the whole time and we walked around this camp site still talking then we decided to go back to her car b.c curfew is 11pm and she lives far away so i drove us back to her car and we ended up not leaving instead we sat and talked til midnight then we decided we really needed to go home. 2nd time we went out we went to a putt putt course and had ice cream unfortunately she had to be home very early but it was fun and the third time was me her and she had a bunch of her friends so it wasnt as great more awkward for me really. Were planning on hanging out more and i really like her but ive only known her for 6 days at this pt idk if she really likes me and if i should ask her out or not im rly stressed over it and need some suggestions thanks
Wow its been a really long time since you guys met again. I suggest you take it easily for now and just hang out as friends. Once you've hung out more with friends or without her friends, It'll start to show if she's in to you or not. If your still confused then go ahead and give her clues or start showing that you like her. Just dont take things fast. Good luck
yeah don't stress just allow it to take it's natural course whatever that may be, it is what it is don't put too much pressure on the situation or you'll kill it before it even has a chance
just do small things to show that you care about her.... things like...maybe paying for her, open the door for her, look into her eyes and see if you get a good look back (perhaps this could lead to a kiss =]), hmmm hug her when your saying bye/hi, complement her on what shes wearing you know... those little things. they will build up and she will notice that you like her. they might also cause her to like you...either way missBhave got it right. just let it take its natural course. if its gonna happen..its gonna happen. good luck =]
well i hug every time we see each other saying hi and bye the one thing that is kind of annoying is she doesnt like people to pay for anything for her so like idk if i should pay for it quickly and not give her a chance to refuse or go head and let her pay. I guess if she really doesnt like it im kind of scared she would be more mad then flattered that i payed for her
I agree. Don't rush things and after a while tell her how you feel. You never know, maybe one day she might be like i like you. Best of luck!
