guys that prefer head over actual sex?

what's with that? i'm curious as to why...

i'm sure the answer is as simple as "different strokes for different folks", but if there's anybody that can, or is willing to further expand upon this, i would love to hear it.

perhaps it's a porn thing?

 

for me its pretty simple, the visual is awsome, and since i cum fast from fuckin, my orgasms are better when getting A bj. Another thing that comes to mind for me is, its something she wants to do, she gets little or no pleasure from it, but does it for you anyways.....

 

I went through a period where I enjoyed it as much as sex, not some much preferred it. Unsurpisingly it was when I was young and relatively inexperienced. The feeling of a girl being intimate enough with me to take me into her mouth was thrilling. The touch of the lips on the head of my cock, the tongue as it slides along me.
I'd always try and get head from a girl as soon as we got to the bedroom, regardless of whether we ultimately ended up going all the way.

 

it can be nice, but i prefer satisfying a woman first.

 

There was one girl who was so good at giving head that I preferred it with her to sex. She was the exception to the rule, mind you.

 

I second that.

 

Agreed, thats my biggest turn on.

Oral can be AMAZING. But nothing is better than good passionate sex.

 

I think its probably the case with most guys, they just have to say they prefer fucking to come off more macho.

Fucking is a lot of work, with BJs you just have to stand/sit there

 

True, and doing nothing is nice sometimes, but it has nothing with being macho. Sex just is all around more fun, and feels better for me

 

well sometimes too. getting a bj can can be held a against a man later on.

 

There's no tongue-uh -down below.

 

there are some exciting things down there though.

 

it's not a porn thing... sometimes it's a pleasure vs stress thing. Getting head is eeeaasssy and enjoyable!

 

I prefer going down on my girl, more than her going down on me. I love eating my girls ass and vag.

I like pussy more than head. Everything I like is below the waste, the vag and ass. There is nothing better than a nice wet pussy and a tight ass, it makes me hard just thinking about it.

To me there is NOTHING hotter than having a girl cum on your dick, whether it's in her pussy or ass.

 

In general getting my penis touched is an enjoyable experience

 

many times i`d just settle for holding hands, puttin my arm around her, rubbin her back, slow dancing,etc.. oftimes it`s sex or nothing, & that gets reaally old

 

Am I weird if I only enjoy it if it's really kinky?

 

sometimes.. a good face fuck is fun!!

 

Man ) you just say what is in my heart ))

 

BJs are better for almost every reason imaginable.

They are no work, so it's much more relaxing, and when I'm jerking off it's also fairly relaxing it's not like some huge workout. I hate sex like that. I don't think it's fun to get all tired and muscularly spent from just sex, it's ridiculous. I work out regularly with hardcore weights, the last thing I want is for sex to be a chore like that. And it is because it has to be like 30 minutes long for a girl to finish it seems like, if you're lucky.

That's another thing. I can cum from a BJ in 5 minutes or less. Sex takes at least 20 minutes, on a good day, and often not at all. I'd say it's about a 50-50 thing. If I'm lucky half of the time I can get off from sex, but it just doesn't feel THAT great usually so it's tough to finish from. It's good once you do, but actually getting there is way too hard.

Oral feels way better, a girl has way more control with her lips AND tongue than just a hole in her body, come on.

Then rounding out the many reasons, oral is a much hotter idea. It's more visually appealing, and it's sexier. I don't have to be worried about what if the condom breaks, what if I got her pregnant, etc. I just focus on wow this is super hot her mouth feels great and this looks amazing. Sex has always been kind of a ho-hum idea to me, like ok yay sex alright whatever. It's boring to watch on porn, I never watch sex when I watch porn, it puts me to sleep. It's more fun to do but it's still pretty boring compared to getting head or any number of other things. It's just sort of mechanical. While it's definitely fun and feels good, it's not really great. Just good. Pleasant, nice, fun, but nothing to get too excited about.

BJs, on the other hand, are amazing.