I starts out with me meeting this girls that have know my whole life. One night i was at this local concert and we saw each other again for the first time in around 10-12 yrs. She came over and said hi to me unfortunately i was in a hurry with my friends and it was just a quick hello and goodbye. I txted her that night and we ended up txting eachother for the next 2 days and nights non stop til about 1 or 2am. Then we started hanging out and we were out one night til midnight. We went on 3 dates within the five days since we had met again. Then i went on a week vacation in canada and because i was roaming i could not text or talk to her or anyone. When i got back i txted her right away and for some reason after 2 txts that she replied to she stopped talking. Now its been 3 going on 4 days that she hasnt responded to my txts and its killing me. I have no idea why she isnt talking. I havent even known her long enough to have done anything to hurt her or offend her in anyway and even if i had been seeing her for a long time i would nvr hurt her in anyway because i care about her and shes the first girl in 4 yrs that i had any interest in. My guess would be that something happened to her phone or she just cant txt but i have no idea and its really hurting me. I know for a senior guy in HS i probably sound like a fag but its all true and i would rather know why shes not talking and even have her like tell me off instead of her giving me the silent treatment. Please someone tell me what you think i should do or if you have any ideas u think could account for her not talking PLEASE and thanks for any responses.
I see nothing has changed since I was in high school -- the same dilemmas; the same worries. If she replies -- cool; if she doesn't-- don't fret. Move past it. It always seems so important when you're caught up in it, but later down the road, it's always just something else to look back on -- and nothing else.
but the weird thing is she was the one that suggested we started hanging out and stuff and shes a really nice down to earth girl and our families are friends so she wouldnt just stop txting me for no reason or something weird like that im not just going to look past it that doesnt help i care to much about the situation and her.
i feel like it would make me look desperate if i started calling her cuz we havent rly talked over the phone plus i dnt like talking on the phone
If I were you I wouldn't worry. Maybe she is busy with work and school, family...just give it a few more days...but then again by NOW if she hasn't responded she isn't interested...do u know where she lives? her friends? any other way to get a hold of her? PM if you wanna talk...I am 19 female and know how we think lol
