help me... please

Discussion in 'All in the Family' started by goingtocalifornia, Aug 25, 2009.

  1. goingtocalifornia

    goingtocalifornia Banned Underage!

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    Please, please help me with this. I just went vegan and now my mom says that if i dont eat dairy again that shes not going to eat at all! what do i do please please please help me
     
  2. metalgypsy

    metalgypsy Member

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    She's probably just trying to make you feel bad. I sincerely doubt she'd go on a hunger strike because of your convictions to eat vegan. Tell her why you're vegan, and then tell her to suck it up.
     
  3. goingtocalifornia

    goingtocalifornia Banned Underage!

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    she is.... she never not means what she says... should i still be vegan?
     
  4. weeattoes

    weeattoes what will be, will be

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    Don't change something because your mom says shes going to starve herself..
    Shes going to eat.

    All shes trying to do is make you feel guilty and make you non-vegan.
    I would say go for it and continue being a vegan.

    Shes hurting herself not you.
     
  5. goingtocalifornia

    goingtocalifornia Banned Underage!

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    thanks for the advice... im gonna take it. I really appreciate it
     
  6. weeattoes

    weeattoes what will be, will be

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    Its no problem.
    You should never change yourself or something that you believe in because of someone.
    Shes going to realize what shes doing is stupid and that she needs to respect you and how you feel and what you believe in.

    And i think that you should point that out.. Not in a rude mannor or anything, theres nice ways of doing it.
     
  7. goingtocalifornia

    goingtocalifornia Banned Underage!

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    yea im gonna talk to her... hopefully she doesnt take it as me being rude... she seems to do that alot
     
  8. DR Corncob

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    Tell her great she's a vegan too!
     
  9. weeattoes

    weeattoes what will be, will be

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    Well good luck.
     
  10. Mr Kite

    Mr Kite Member

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    Stick to your guns.
     
  11. krick3t

    krick3t Member

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    howd it go?
     
  12. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    Well, I'm the sort who would do it, and catch her eating.
    But, I'm a tad mean.

    Point out that she's being manipulative and that she's better than that.
    Then ask what her concerns are about a vegan diet and lifestyle and work together to find the best answers for your situation.
     
  13. Woodpoppies

    Woodpoppies Member

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    I agree with this !!!

    And this aswell!! :D
     
  14. PeaceInTheStreets

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    That's crazy your mom would do that... That really sucks. I don't see what the big deal is. If you want to do a healthy change to yourself who is she to be against it? I mean if you JUST WENT vegan she could even give you a chance to give it a try to... Good luck!
     

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