I heard that male multiple orgasm is possible if you can control your cum when you have an orgasm. Has anyone tried this, and has it worked? I can hold it in for mabey 3 seconds before I have to splooge.
I've managed a couple of consecutive orgasms on occasion, albeit exhausting & exceptionally tender. However, by using the 'Dribbler' technique, it is possible to manage multiple ejaculations, as with practice & self control, an ejaculation need not be the same as an orgasm.
I have learned to do it without cumming . . . essentially having a dry orgasm. It took me about six months to learn to short circuit the ejaculation response and just have the orgasm with no cum. I can have as many as ten or so orgasms over a two hour period and never cum.
Anyone try the Aneros? My wife has used other plugs on be and they really intensify normal orgasms. I keep reading that the Aneros will allow orgasms without touching your penis. Anyone try it? How do you know which model to use?
i've done edging b4 a stop and start method, and just using the pre-lube coming out the head after a lot of play(not jerking or jacking) u can thumb over the urethra and keep it oozing and if u dont touch the coronal ridge at base of head nor underneath where it is so sensitive, the frenulum and forskin, it can go on for a long time. I usually can last about an hour b4 just wanting to jerk and squirt and get it overwith, sometimes it is very intense too!!, it varies from sperting and just dribbling out, but by that time i've had so many near orgasms, whew!!!
I have been using the aneros for two years ..they helped me do the mmo thing. I have all the models . . . for a beginner I would suggest the helix with an upgrade to a eupho and a progasm when you get into it. It took a little while toi get used to them. It is a following sort of activity as opposed to a typical make it happen kind of activity. The best results come when you relax and listen to your body and let the super o's happen to you. Get on the aneros forum and read the great guidance that is in there.
Thanks. I figured that the Helix is the rigth one because my wife and I already play around with other toys. How long does it take to get your first MMO?
It took me about six months . . . I was doing sessions once every two weeks. I think if I could have done them more frequently I could have cut that time in half. The hardest part is that as guys we are programmed to push ourselves in sex and make orgasm happen ...an aneros super o is more of a passive activity . . . kind of a gentle body listening thing as opposed to the thrusting / forceful character of fucking. I know that it sounds like touchy - feely crap but it is true. You need to retrain the feelings at your prostate to make it happen. Patience is key and don't try too hard.
What I've been trying is some sort of Tantric masturbation thing where I squeeze my PC muscle tight as I approach an orgasm. I'm not sure I could call them multiple orgasms, but I can feel REALLY good to the point of almost orgasming, then I fight the urge to ejactulate like a motherfucker while I control how I stimulate myself. What I do is I just try to suspend myself in that kind of super pleasurable, sensitive feeling for a while, then I take a break just enough for the orgasmic urge to subside. I'm still erect by this time, and I have not ejaculated yet, so I'm still able to resume masturbating. I usually repeat the whole thing once or twice, and then just go ahead and ejaculate afterward. I don't do this all the time, though.
my wife can get two out of me a couple of ways now.. the first proven method is she'll blow me and stroke me til I'm ready to blow and .. and just as I'm cumming she jerks on my balls.. the orgasm stops but the high stays.. then she starts again.. the second time I have a huge build up.. The other way she found was sucking me .. and started milking my prostrate.. I came right away.. then she put a strap on, on and then went to town.. I almost passed out the second time I came..
The toys help and so does exercising(kegals), to get a better grasp on control, but the way to have a multiple orgasm is to maintain the excitement level , which will also help maintain an erection , even after cumming the first time. I could have an orgasm with a limp dick if I was stimulated in the proper way. Maintaining an erection and having 2 ejaculations in her is great because I can go until she has her orgasm. Then I get to eat the biggest cream pies as she lays there exhusted from the terrific performance.
QUOTE=topper;5913761]The toys help and so does exercising(kegals), to get a better grasp on control, but the way to have a multiple orgasm is to maintain the excitement level , which will also help maintain an erection , even after cumming the first time. I could have an orgasm with a limp dick if I was stimulated in the proper way. Maintaining an erection and having 2 ejaculations in her is great because I can go until she has her orgasm. Then I get to eat the biggest cream pies as she lays there exhusted from the terrific performance.[/QUOTE] what exactly do u mean by cream pies, ur own semen or her juices?
dudes wht is this aneros thing....i searched for it in google a sort of forum came up but i dont know wht this thing is about and cant get a hang off it sum 1 plzz help me and tell wht i have to do to get a multiple orgasm
The problem is I have tried holding it it, and I can get like 3 seconds-worth of holding it, but then of course the orgasm comes and I have to blow my load.
it may be that u r not stopping soon enough, at the first tingling, u need to stop and relax and breathe. then resume slowly. if u squeeze, squeeze under the head and not touch the head, and of course kegel exercises help u to stop the semen bursts. u can exercise kegel muscle anytime anywhere, just flex the muscle that stops ur urine flow and same muscle that helps u contract ur anus to have a bowel movement. u probably have played with this muscle by making ur erection "bounce" with no hands b4. it will get stronger and help u to stop the semen and u can rest and start back.
I found that if I edge (stroke just to the point of the start of an orgasm - then stop) I can have a mini-orgasm (even with ejaculation) then after the throbbing stops resume stroking again and repeat. I have had as many as 6 orgasms that way in 30 minutes.