I have been seeing a girl for 3 weeks and I really really like her and I am very attracted to her, but last night when we finally started to have sex for the first time I couldn't get an erection. This has never happened to me before and I feel too humiliated to eve call her back. The thing I was wondering is how many of you girls have been with a guy when this happened. Did you laugh at him or were you offended.
I dont know, maybe you're not as comfortable with her yet. I mean 3 weeks is NOT a lot of time to just be hopping in bed you know? Do you want to have sex or do you want to hold off? Do you like her to not think about sex all the time with her? cause I do have a friend and we're close but we dont sleep together much. only because we dont think of it as THAT important to make our interests and friendship work, you understand? It'll happen when it'll happen. give it time
