Getting over the love of your life

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Kandahar, Nov 13, 2004.

  1. Kandahar

    Kandahar Banned

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    How do you cope when you are completely in love with someone, and want nothing in the world more than to be with them forever...but they just don't feel the same way and have made it clear that they never will...

    It really sucks. How do you get over someone like that? Any suggestions are welcome, as I just can't do this to myself anymore. I hate being so depressed. :(
     
  2. SweetSoul

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  3. DancerAnnie

    DancerAnnie Resident Beach Bum

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    Sometimes the butterfly has to be set free and if it comes back to you, what will be will be.

    Embrace the fact that everyone goes their own ways. There are many fish in the sea and you will always find someone. But most of all, be happy with yourself. IF you can't be happy being alone, you'll never be happy with anyone. Everyone is able to feel whole without someone with them. If you can't...no matter what, it won't be a healthy relationship.

    Find something you enjoy. Immerse yourself in it. Do what makes YOU happy. This is your time to do what YOU want!

    Go out and have fun!
     
  4. SweetSoul

    SweetSoul Member

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    And what Dancerannie said
     
  5. rockymtnhigh

    rockymtnhigh Hip Forums Supporter HipForums Supporter

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    Hey Bro
    I've been there, it may not be easy but I promise it gets better. It's a cliche but time heals all wounds. You will probably always have some feelings for someone you care that much. But it becomes easier day by day. You may not understand right now, but you will sooner than later.
    It's all Good
    CR
     
  6. thisismike

    thisismike Overlooked/Uninvited

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    The best thing to do is to have the wisdom to look forward and hopefully realize that if you spent those hours with her.. She may not have been as happy as you. Eventually you may have become a little dis-satisfied with the relationship. Unrequited love hurts like a bastard.. But it would also hurt longer while you pursue an unattainable goal.

    Immerse yourself in something else you love. Love does come around. Sometimes at the damndest times.. Just keep your eyes open..

    Blue skies...
     
  7. lynsey

    lynsey Banned

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    perfectly said
     
  8. mebesideme

    mebesideme Member

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    Look ahead man. Learn from the past, remember the lessons, but don't dwell on the memories.
     
  9. superNova

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    bullshit.
     
  10. KozmicBlue

    KozmicBlue Senior Member

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    I wish I could answer, but I really have no idea. :(
     
  11. ZePpeLinA

    ZePpeLinA Jump around!

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    It's hard to forget about someone you care deeply about. It takes time to heal and get used to be without them. but it does happen, and eventually you'll see that it's all in the past.
    Just hold those good memories left and learn from the experiences. after all, that's what life is all about. Love teaches us some of life's most important lessons.
    take care.
     
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