I kissed a girl....was my bf's reaction normal?

You have a really weird relationship.

 

Your bf sounds gay. A real man wouldn't have let his pussy little feelings get in the way of hot chick on chick action. Dumb his gay ass

 

I wouldn't just instantly join in, like I didn't even give a shit about who you are. That's pretty much what you were saying to him, so I really can't blame him for getting pissed, even if he was just confused.

 

If you are in a relationship that is not open....then being open with your physical lusts is not fair. I don't blame him for reacting the way that he did. I also laugh at how many people are making the assumption that it was hot chick on chick action. Perhaps the girl was a freaking annoyance to him and he woudn't want to touch her with your lips

 

Lol hell yes to the blog idea. I just love hearing what people think of the insane situation because its pretty insane to me. But whatever, it is what it is.

 

though it seems harmless, it is not. Had you and he talked about this type of experimentation before? Was he aware that it was going to take place? Had you done such a thing before with his knowledge? You may have tapped into issues that he has concerning infidelity in a prior relationship. A nice long conversation is needed at this point with candor and sincerity on your part.

 

First, kym1979, you have a very cute ass. Secondly, regarding the forum question, some will argue that we are sexual beings and the desire to copulate is an innate biological drive. Truth is found in many different aspects of any argument. Having been conditioned with christian morality in my youth, I rail against any point religion supports. While I agree with the concept of free love, you truely must be free to indulge. Relationships are based upon conditional love codified by religion and supported by states. Entering into a relationship binds you to the conventions of the society of either party, a contract of a sort is agreed upon. Most prefer that this contract be exclusive, others broaden the boundries of the contract while others choose to ignore it altogether. Some societies encourage multiple partners to ensure the survival of the young in the group, the reasoning being that if you might be the father, you are prone to feelings of investment and will therefore help to protect and tutor the children......I could go on and on but I think you get my point......I have always encouraged my partners to expand their lives. The only failing point has been trust.

 

no, wherever you are from, whatever background you have, if there is no trust and respect in a relationship, it is doomed.

personally, if i couldnt trust my girlfriend, she wouldnt be my GF in the first place. same, if she somehow exploits that trust or proves to be untrustworthy, she will be my ex-girlfriend in a matter of minutes. I really cant even imagine to live with someone i cant trust totally.

 

You fucking kissed another chick and found it perfectly fine, then think its bullshit how he got pissed? You're one dumb ****, he should ditch yer ass.

 

Well it's a sign that he's insecure about your relationship but also that he really cares about you and is afraid he might lose you. So you could just tell him you where really wasted and kissed her by mistake and give him a hug and a kiss saying it won't ever happen again, that might calm him down.

 

I would have fucked both of you, then never talked to you again.


Hussy

 

I would've found that to be a turn-on.

BUT, if you're saying kissing other girls should be permitted, then I would also ask that I be allowed to kiss other girls too, if I were your boyfriend. I probably would be jealous if my girlfriend started fooling around with another guy, but then hey, nobody's perfect.

 

I still say you're a whore.

 

Hussy

 

id be more than a bit pissed. if its somone you love 3+ years, id fuck her off.

 

To the OP- its obvious that if you omit the bias little boys, or the men stuck in immature mind frames..then you got lucky by keeping your bf...looks like lots of people agree that you more than crossed the line..

especially since you got all pissed that he got mad over it lmao, ridiculous.

 

cheating is cheating..... ever heard that one

 

:cheers2:
agreed 100%

 

Hussy

 

lmao