i cant get wet!

Discussion in 'Sexual Health' started by Moon Child, May 1, 2006.

  1. confused.com

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    Im only 18, and I ant seem to get wet either, I am soo horny and I love my bf 2 bits, so its not that he aint turning me on? I just seem 2 dry up? I think it may be stress? what do u think? I have been on the same birth control for years now... and never had this problem... any help?
     
  2. jia

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    Not just birth control, a number of different medications and a number of conditions effect how much lubrication a woman produces.

    Anything that reduces mucus production (cold drugs, etc) will hinder you getting wet
     
  3. Gumby

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    Some girls just can't get wet. I had this room mate that was complaining about that all the time. No matter how horny and hot for someone, she had to use a lube. Even when she would fuck her dildo, she couldn't get wet on her own and she loved that thing.
     
  4. femlady

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    Couple of things. First make sure you are hydrated and very aroused before sexual encounters. You may want to talk to your physician though cause you may be suffering from hypo sexual desire disorder (HSDD) or female sexual dysfunction (FSD). There are plenty of natural libido enhancers out there that can help but there are also two pharmaceutical options nearing availability, LibiGel and Flibanserin I for one would not go those routes but they are options to consider if you think the problem is serious. As an alternative you could stick with natural female aphrodisiacs and plenty of water based lube and make sure to get plenty of stimulation before going for intercourse. Good luck and feel free to PM me if you have any questions.

    Jill
     
  5. Lennon_Skye

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    I agree, but other than that you could try using an additional lubricant just to make it easier and more comfortable for both of you.

    L_S
     
  6. Mrs. White

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    I have the same problem also, it's prolly nothing major. Many women don't get very wet while getting aroused. We use lots of lube and have fun! Try having him give you oral sex first, that really gets the blood pumping. Me personally, I don't like getting fingered as much as some oral foreplay :) That seems to be the trick sometimes. Good luck!
     
  7. onlinemaca

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    relaxed your self and just enjoy. if you really can't get wet then try using waterbased lubricants
     
  8. Sam_Stoned

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    Sometimes the tip of y dick gets wet when I just have a ahrd on that I can't do anything with. It does away and leaves a little dab of slime.

    Then I usually pee it off.
     
  9. MayQueen~420~

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    Ok, a friend of mine use to have this issue, it is a clinical thing...use lube. I will say though I was the only person she could get wet for;):p. So either buy sum lube or let a chick eat you out, lol. Hope this helped.
     
  10. SweetBlasphemy

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    Nipple stimulation doesn't help? I mean, I can't just have some fingers shoved up into my un-preheated vag and expect to start the slip-n-slide.

    A good woman must be crank-started like a Model T...
     
  11. MayQueen~420~

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    :smilielol5:eek:h shit that was great!! But anyways...yeah me to, I just have to be kissed a certain way and that's it Niagara Falls.
     
  12. johnyou

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    My gf has issues getting wet sometimes and yet othertimes she'll be soaked just a case of relaxing and enjoying things i guess and doing whatever gets you going the most.
     
  13. Sereinty

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    i really need help i get horny and i always want sex but i just cant get wet and its really peeing me of and my parent:confused::confused:
     
  14. Ivana13

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    ^ your parent?

    hoping for a big reaction were we lol?
     
  15. tribfan

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    awesome :)
     
  16. yyyesiam2

    yyyesiam2 Senior Member

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    grapeseed oil is the shiznit
     
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    Cheers Glen.
     

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