Last night I went to a party and ended up having a girl coming back home with me. I'm a virgin and when it finally came time for us to do it, I couldn't get hard enough to do it. I was legitimately afraid that my penis would be physically incapable of sex. I had been drinking for 3 and a half hours and at the time I was quite drunk, as was she. I couldn't concentrate on what I was doing, I kept thinking about sleeping. My friend told me they called this Whiskey Dick. M cousin said he boyfriend used to do it when he drank and I've been told this isn't uncommon. Has anyone else had this problem? It's just a bummer that it happened when it came to be my first time haha. And thankfully no awkwardness ensued because I was able to laugh it off with her. Hopefully im not just impotent!
As long as you can get a hardon by masturbation you're not impotent. It was just the whiskey. If you every wake with an erection, the "equipment" is working. Next time, be sober and have fun.
I disagree, many erotic nights start from drinking, also where would one night stands be without booze? Dam near extinct thats where. Op I have heard that term before, and was actually told thats what I had when I was a virgin like you (thankfully cuz the chick wasn't all that hot). Anyways I find that this wasn't the case at all b/c it happened a couple other times without booze. It's really embarassing actually but anyways the way I took care of it was decided to take a viagra with a chick one night and haven't had that problem since and that was over 10 yrs ago.
I'm just speaking from a somewhat recent experience. I was high as fuck (free weed at that, don't ask how :hat and a little tipsy, and I almost lost my virginity, but I didn't. Still, I at least got to suck on some tits, get a handjob, and finger the girl, but it still would've been a better night had I gone all the way. I'm pretty sure I would've gotten some ass if I weren't as high as I was. I was so high I could barely fucking see straight. I'm surprised I even remember everything that happened.
Whiskey dick is where its hard to cum because your dick is kinda numb. What you had was performance anxiety. Happens to alot of people. Its actually good it didn't work out because you will enjoy sex for the first time alot more sober. my first was when i was drunk and I cant remeber her name. just that her boyfriend wasnt thrilled.
