I have a challenge for you guys. Reply and tell me how it goes. I challenge everyone out there to build up to an orgasm, but right before you cum, hold it in, and see how long you can go before you have to splooge.
What do you mean? Like, come but pinch it off? 'Cause I can bring myself to near orgasm, and then just stop and eventually go limp and not come until the next time I'm jackin' or fuckin'.
Tightening your PC muscles does exactly the opposite. I learnt this much when I first lost my virginity. I could tell I was on the verge of climaxing, but didn't it to end, so I tightened my PC muscles to hold back as long as I could, but to no avail - all it did was bring me to orgasm all the faster. Once I became more experienced I found the best approach was to force a relaxing of those muscles as much as possible as soon as I feel those signals. It's difficult to master, but it does give a few more valuable seconds of sexual activity. Using the Dribbler technique of masturbation is very similar & can be used to train for this. As soon as you sense the semen starting to rise, just before you peak for orgasm, stop masturbating & force a relaxation of the PC muscles. The semen will continue to be released, without the force of orgasm behind it (hence the name, 'Dribbler'), so after a short recuperation period, because you haven't actually peaked to orgasm you can start again, using the semen of the previous release as lubricant. Furthermore, after a while the semen becomes whipped up, like egg whites, when making meringue, and just like beaten egg whites it takes on a much sweeter flavour. See how many ejaculations you can manage before you have to yield to the ultimate orgasm (and I do mean ULTIMATE - when that final one hits you, it's a mind blower). My personal best is 10 ejaculations - blowing on the 11th (by which time my seminal reserves were pretty much dry).
I have been doing something similar to this from about age 15. I lay in bed or recliner and very slowly build up to climax be stoking the underside of my erection using only one and two fingers moving up and down very very slowly taking as long as I can to build up to climax. Just before I reach climax I stop and relax completely. Once the feeling has past I start again. I have been able to do this as many as six times before I blow my load. It is the most fun I have every had in bed by myself. I have also brought myself to climax by only thinking about it. Laying in bed or recliner with out touching myself I concentrate on the feeling you get just before climax. I start out with no erection and slowly I get an erection it become more and more ententes until I climax. This generally take about an hour or so. Now there a masturbation challenge for you. Remember hands free. LOL
I lke to do that inorton. Cant beat prolonging the pleasure. Love to wear a miniskirt and play with my nipples. O joy!
My GF can acheieve orgasm hands free but i've never tried it if i'm honest . closest thing to it would be waking up or having a lazy dream about sex and dreaming about orgasm but still being conscious of the fact unlike a wet dream where you are asleep and only find out once you awake . I understand the dribbler tech and i have probably done it if not by acident when trying not to cum during intercourse . if you dont feel the "pulse behind the shot" then you can more than ofter continue . Also i find that if you say blow your load in another area , say the mouth or get wanked off . you can sometimes continue to intercorse . With my 1st GF and when i 1st started having sex i used to just be embarresed about cummin early that i would just go through the barrier and continue . think i could do it up to 4 times before i'd had enough . ha . Fortunatly i dont have this problem anymore . can sometimes be the opposite .
