I meet her(him) god I don't even know how she(he) would like to refered as. Well her(his) name is Erin. Erin and I had a really nice night last friday, and I can tell Erin is quite into me at the very least infatuated. We ran into each other tonight and before she left he? kissed me on the cheek I was getting more good vibes from Erin. Erin binds her breasts and she told me she really does not like her breasts. (she said how would feel if you had breasts, I am a man I told her I would hide them but I would probable play with them at home) We have know each other for three years we are in the same grade in college but only through short conversations. Anyways I don't understand transexuals, it is not that I am against the trannies in any way I just have a hard understanding. Does she wish she was born a boy? How does she feel about her vigina (it is still there)? I know she doesn't like to her breasts being fondled. It doesn't help that she is into kink. and I have my own personal issues that makes making me a sadist (she's a bottom) kind of dangerous. I enjoyed it but I afraid of getting to much of a taste for it. I was planning on calling her this weekend I enjoy seeing her, but maybe no tranny is the same so this is all useless, sense I should just talk to her, I told her last time that I think of her as girl and she said that was fine (though what people say and what they want can easily be in conflict) Oh I am a little bi so if she was a man I would actually be less confused. That is kind of funny My post might insensitive but how I am suppose to know what feels to be in the wrong body? God I used all my intelligence and strength to maintain and create relationships and I meet someone who has the spark, you know that connection. And all these complications appear that I never thought existed. I have so much course work and though i am worried I haven't been this happy in a long time
I think first of fall, if he identifies as male he would prefer he and not she but that's something you need to ask them yourself. It is for sure hard to understand, it's not something that gets openly discussed very often and I think you should allow yourself time apart from him to get used to it so to speak. The internet is a great resource for any questions you my have and I've heard this website is very good though I haven't been to it myself www.tsroadmap.com . It's important to think of Erin as a person before anything else. If you don't know if a question is appropriate, you probably shouldn't ask it and just look the answer up online. Hope that helps a little
Whats to work out really? Just imagine some one was given a brain transplant by mistake at a hospital and woke up one day previously a guy now in a girls body. It is really kind of that simple