I think I fall in love with, and want to fuck, almost everyone. At least of people I notice and focus on. I tend to blur out a lot. Everything changes. But I think this phase will last some time. Anyone else constantly fall in love and want to fuck almost everyone? Its a little dangerous and psychotic but I love it. Especially when I shroom. Then I want to fuck the most bizarre of people I may have had never thought about once that way though known a some time. I like to imagine having sex with different people, and even feel like I may some day. I am somewhat discreet though. I have to pick up the vibe first. It has to feel right. Like if I knew someone didn't even want the THOUGHT I feel like I'd sense it and avoid it, turn it off. But more often than not I pick up strong sexual vibes everywhere I go. Some people flirt constantly with everyone but stay monogomous. I try and avoid that. I don't really flirt with anyone except maybe online. I feel like I was supposed to fuck a lot of people in the past that I didn't fuck. Come on- most of us have been brain washed into being jealous and monogomous and resenting it simultaneously with a slew of programs proving to us that polygymy would fail. I've tossed that fucking program out, and I feel alot better inside. Now the thoughts I have aren't wrong or selfish. I'm certain that STD's werre invented to scare us from fucking freely, and that condoms were invented to make sex sterile, impersonal, and fake. Useless. I wont even fuck with a condom on. Ill just go home. Im not implying a lack of safety. Only the strong feeling that sex is safe and sacred and we need to explore it more.
i think ur a bit mad. only time i felt like i had too much feelings for too many people was after lots of good MDMA (xtc). the shrooms are just lowering ur morals. u say sex is sacred? then u say u want to fuck anyone willy nilly lol u need to find one particular partner at a time, and explore them in depth. we humans have instincts, instinct of a woman is to "gather" and look for ONE male who can support her kids. insinct of a male is to "hunt", and to spread his seeds as much as he can. thats basci instinct covered in university. so then comes the explaination for the double standard, woman arent meant to fuck alot of people or they are sluts. men can however, and unfortantly thats just how human beings are. whatch ur morals or no one will want u
no but look ill be honest im comp[assionate with ur viewpoint yet its wrong ive shared devoted love with one person for over 4 years my loyalty and dedication is absolute im like a dog, but really a soaring eagle
My tantric and yogic devotion is to see women as the Godess Kali Ma, and men as Shivaya. I feel like it elevates me and them and brings a sort of flow where everything feels right and things reach a higher level. When Gods fuck its truly wonderful.
sex reaches a higher level when ur with somone u love. that other stuff is just crap. its not really grounded. dont listen to me tho, i have strong beleives just as im sure u do too.
I'm happy to have read this thread... I feel the same way lovuh, but its not really the shrooms, its there already.
iv done heaps of shrooms and lsd. it can give u amazing afterglows and u just want to be soo free. but we live in the real world. just watch the drugs and ur morals thats all im saying.
yeah if only... it seems that in this world that girl has to set the bar, with the guy. the guy will always fuck, if the girl lets them, but afterwards he will think ur a slut. but if u hold out, he will think ur worthwhile. that ur not just fucking every guy. seriously woman can be really stupid, listen to what i say its very true.
its limited and dogmatic- basically a mans sexual structure has been corrupted. If man learns how to achieve a more divine sexual union utilizing tantra and learning how to orgasm without ejaculation the scenario you describe simply does not exist or occur, but only a greater harmonization and unity and many health benefits happen.
dude i'm totally digging what you have to say herbuhlovuh i totally into the Gods and Goddess fucking vibe. i've always been down for that shit. my latest problem is i want to fuck so many people...mainly females. actually 100 percent females. i fall in love with them instantly and want to fuck ecstatically. but, now i'm starting to wonder what if i'm also capable of fucking guys? part of me hates the idea. i don't necessarily get turned on by men but it's more like i could see it happening some day. and in the meantime i hate that it might turn out like that. i would love to just stay heterosexual. i don't know what to do about it. i know that if i became Bi i wouldn't care once i got to that point, but it still sucks NOW thinking about a future possibility.
we men are just animals, litterally. we just get horny and want to fuck. if u love the person than its a special bond.
first off each of us create our own morals, perhaps your level of moral conduct are lessened when you shroom, but that isn't the case for everyone. also, sacred sex in terms of the tantric tradition he is referring (where the male refrains from ejaculation) is done with a consort, though usually not a lover. it isn't about the love its about the uniting of the duality to create a non-dual understanding (i'm just a beginner in this philosophy, so i might have this all wrong), so i see what you are saying peter about sex meaning more when you are in love, i agree, but this is not the frame of reference the OP is talking about yes there are instincts, but plenty of women now days just want to fuck as well, and more and more females don't want kids. you are right, about natural instincts, though modernity is affecting these things. fuck stereotypes! a woman should be able to fuck as much as men if she chooses. depends on the person, who is to say the real world isn't a part of something more? or the real world as we experience it is an illusion. perhaps the real world isn't the illusion, but we are blinded to the ultimate reality, and thus we think we are experiencing the real world even though we aren't, because we suffer. (just saying this because i am guessing this is where the OP is coming from) and AGAIN different people react to psychedelics differently! who is not say women aren't the same. NOT all men are like this, many, if not most are, but not all. Same with women, not all women are looking for one "soul mate"...there are gray areas for both genders
What is love? Sometimes love means being able to trust yourself and your significant other to be able to be with other people sexually. A lot of people think that actions have meaning, but without understanding one's intentions, one cannot find true meaning. HerbuhLovuh: To answer your question, I don't really want to bone everyone, but I am certainly open to the idea that people like to have sex and that sometimes that means trying a bunch of different people out! :cheers2:
Alright! Well I'm glad we got some interesting messages. Goodvibes83 seems to have quite the comprehensive perspective. Very crucial/important.
ChinaCat- I can appreciate your feelings on the sexuality issue. It seems like we were deceived into believing men are sexually undesirable for men, and I've always been heterosexual, but I don't think I am anymore. I have no proof, just a feeling. Actually I feel like being bi-sexual is an admirable trait in anyone and increases their sexual desirability, and totally natural. But our positions have been so skewed by social customs. It would seem that in general men have been bred and conditioned to want to fight and be in conflict with one another rather than fuck. We could all imagine why.
they weren't invented, perhaps that is a poor word choice... would you ATLEAST tell your partner you had an STD??? meant to put this in my original post whoops
Well, I think invented is the proper word. They are real symptoms, sure, but, well, most of the uncurables have been cured by people. Some very easily. That's all I'll say. To answer your questions I'd first have to have one, which I don't, If I did have symptoms I would cleanse myself of them. That's the theory. I feel no compulsion to lie to someone. If I knew herpes tended to bust out my face or that I was dying of the big conspiracy called AIDS(which is what my comment targeted primarily) I would probably write about it and make a big deal out of it so that when I cured the supposedly uncurable disease I could write more about that. Lets just say that we've all been lied to and misled about the nature of disease and the role of the medical establishment in general. The obvious answer to your question is yes. But it implies a lot of things that I feel are improbable if not downright impossible. For instance people have taken blood transfusions with HIV in them and then removed the HIV with their own immune systems. This is the kind of medical impossibility I feel is common place, because it is the nature of the medical establishment to hoodwink people into becoming addicts of the medical system. But I'm not suggesting this is veritable scientific fact. That just keeps bringing us back to the same shitstem that has already proved itself ineffective for treating chronic and degenerative illness. I'm not suggesting you should take my word for it or throw caution to the wind(which I'm sure you wouldn't anyway, for the most part). But at least wonder if in fact something entirely seperate is going on than you were led to believe.
Yeah i'm kinda like china cat. I fall in love with every hot girl i meet. I definately see some attraction in certain guys, like how they COULD be attractive but i feel like iv'e been programmed by society, and its gotten to me subconsously that attraction to guys is a bad thing. So for that reason, on top of the reason that i like girls better anyways, I am 99.8% sure i will never do another dude. If i do than it would only be once or twice.
Well, its OK. There's no requirement to be gay. It seems to me that being purposely straight gay or bi all have drawbacks compared to as just being, or however. Things change.