Anal Masturbation Habit

I agree with Cuff, being gay isn't about liking you ass played with.
Being gay is about enjoying someone of the same sex playing with your ass, or clit, or whatever. haha.
Pleasure yourself and include your ass if you want, why not? It's your body! If you use assplay to make yourself feel degraded, why not have someone (of the opposite sex if you wish) do it to you, for you... just keep looking

 

Get a dildo with high power, or do what i did. Get areal cock up your ass its the best feeling in the world. Iwas like you experimenting with broomsticks, hockey sticks, dildo's, ass dildo's, butt plugs, until i met a guy at a glory hole. The real thing feels like the best thing for me.

 

But how about the wife problem: Should one tell her that you like penetrating yourself one in a while - or is it OK to have a little secret. After all, do we have to know everything about each other even though we are married? That sentense more or less reveals my own opinion - but please share your opinion on this matter - preferably the ladies ...

 

I think it's ok to keep that a secret. It won't hurt anyone if you don't tell her. I wouldn't tell my girlfriend or wife either. Only if SHE brings up the subject like "want me to fuck you a bit? what do you say?". I would be like "ok, let's do it!", but if she doesn't ask, why should i risk it?

 

My wife loves to fuck me with a strap on, and I love her for doing it. Hint to her about it and she will probaly get turned on and love the fact you like it. This is NOT a gay thing.
I had a gay guy tell me that if I dropped to my knees and sucked a dick and got ass fucked by a dude it doesn't mean im gay. If I am attracted to him then I start getting into gay land. The only reason I havn't yet is because society says it's wrong, but fuck society, Im going to get some dick and suck and fuck it for me and my pleasure.

 

i also love the same as i have 1 in now and gone into a a abs with it in semi naked going soon naked wish me luck

 

I really like it as well. I started not long after I discovered masturbation, didn’t know a thing about why but I would rub the outside until I came from jacking off.