6 inches is average which makes him smaller than most, at 5' 9" he's short in stature, and at 220 lbs he's fat (relative to his size) His only saving grace; he’s an egomaniac Hotwater
the average weight for white males in america age 20-29 is 168 lbs. for white males 30-39 is 179 lbs. of course i am not certain if you are a white male in america, but those are the averages. this does not reflect the healthy range based on height or anything, this is just all the all the pounds divided by all the men. average height for those same men is 5' 10" average length of an erect penis is 6.34 inches. 90% of all penises are between 4 and 8.25 inches. so since you are slightly shorter then average, on two counts, and a good bit above average on the other count, i disagree you are actually slightly above average.
it doesnt matter if your average you will find someone who thinks you are amazing and so beyond average that your physical apperance wont even matter i look for the personalilty in a man the beauty of the way he thinks not how tall he is or how big his hang down is so dont fret about if you are average or not