My problem is the guy I like thinks I was asking this girl about him. Since we didn't really know each other and weren't friends, he judged me by what he heard. I only asked the girl 2 questions about him. I found out that he was telling people what I did, so I confronted him(in front of his friends) and told him to stop talking about things that he didn't know. He just laughed with his friends. A few months later I wrote him a private facebook message, apologizing to him for confronting him in front of his friends. He deleted his facebook a few days later. That all happened 2 years ago. I didn't see him at all last year, so he hasn't seen me in a year. But I recently started seeing him again in school. Since I still like him, I want to talk to him, but I'm scared to because I don't know if he still doesn't like me or not. He did get a facebook again last year and we are facebook friends, and his parents are friendly with mine, and my mom told him that I was going to community college to finish high school early, and he was saying that that's good that I'm doing that. So do you think that he's over what happened 2 years ago? Do guys get over stuff quickly? Would it be a bad idea to try talking to him? All I want is to just be friends with him.
no offense but he doesn't seem too interested in you. From what you've said, he hardly has paid any attention to you. You should move on and find a guy who will actually pay notice to you.
um, i'm sorry beuatykitten, but i kinda know that he's not interested in me. And it's stupid because he's judging me about something that happened 2 years ago to a situation that wasn't even true! Do you think that's fair? You don't think I already know he's not interested in me? Thats why I need to talk to him! To make him realize I'm not as crazy as he thinks I am! Janis Joplin has this quote that basically says that no matter how many questions you ask and answers you get, it all comes down to how you feel. Thanks. And thanks vanilla gorilla, you could grow up now.
