A guy tried to convince me there was a thing known as being "orally bisexual." Or as he put it - you'd suck dick if you were in a threesome. I told him a straight male wouldn't suck a dude's dick on a consistent basis. Maybe I'm wrong? What do you think? He seriously INSISTS upon it. I've never heard of this "orientation" before. Like I said, I think it's basically bullshit. I mean, I would eat vag in a threesome but then again, I'm bisexual so of course I would. Opinions?
I suppose it makes sense. A guy who will only preform such a task could be considered so. Under the grand scheme of things any sexual deviance would be considered simply bisexual, but labels don't even need to be apparent. But then, maybe it is a strait thing. I have always heard that strait men have a HUGE fascination with their own pecker, so why not others. Strait porn still sees a women performing oral on the male, and the audience in question although strait, like to see that. I think every male just has a huge obsession with the a penis, and people are much more liberal to trying something new like same sex oral now. But as originally stated, I agree it's bullshit, labels are bullshit, but I guess if you had to put a stamp on it, any man who will suck another mans dick is bisexual- or bi-curious. He asked you for a threesome yet? lol. Think he is trying to tell you something here!
Yep its bullshit, your not straight if you suck dick. Your not 3/4 straight or 95% straight. Your just not straight. Bisexual, gay, whatever.
Blinkie, you have got a good head on your shoulders. And you are totally right here. A straight dude is straight not just because he is exclusively into pussy but because he is equally so not into other dudes and their dicks. Can you be an 'oral only' bi or gay man? By all means. Loads of both bi and gay men are 'oral only'. Which sure, does not make them straight at all. KD
Yup. VG. I guess, we all agree with this one... On the other hand, who cares? Would anyone really bother to get going in order to collect the necessary evidence and prove him wrong??? When it comes to sex, you buy at the face value. If a dude says, he is str8, no matter how many beeps you are getting on your gaydar, you still have no means of proving him wrong. Any why would you want to? You move on to either someone, who does not say anything but wants to suck dick, or someone who says he is gay, bi, str8 and everything else but is willing... KD
Actually, I do have a way of proving him wrong - he told me he's had a dick in his mouth before and would do it again. And yeah, I've gotten several um "subtle" hints now he wants a threesome. I don't mind threesomes but for some reason, it always irks me when people are obsessed with them. I used to REALLY resent it when I was younger and people would excessively "sexualize" bisexuality, but I've come to accept that straight men are seriously turned on by bisexual females. I know not all are, but I'd say it's definitely a majority-rules thing. Anyway, I'm probably gonna fuck him today but... ok, I'm gonna bitch. Bare with me - I actually need some outside input. He annoys the hell out of me sometimes when we talk online but IRL he's a cool person. Met him upstate. He used to constantly ask about my sex life, if I was "having any naughty fun," and almost brow-beat me for details whenever I even hinted at having any sort of intimate contact with girls. In the beginning, he jumped the gun and started arranging for a threesome with some chick whose profile he found on a dating site. It had nothing to do with her and everything to do with the fact that I didn't know her and my disdain for how he just... y'know, being too forward and quick! (I'm trying this new thing which involves practicing discretion with who I have sex with.... as in not putting out. Long story but I'm sure it's the same as alot of people's haha) May I just say right now it feels great to be venting to other bisexuals and even if no one replies or reads this I'll still be peachy. Anyway, he said he was sorry and stopped when I told him I didn't mind his prying. We were both in open relationships when we got together and that made me feel better about the whole situation but I know nothing about his girl (not that I want to; I don't care as long as she doesn't care) and he had the audacity to tell me to break it off with my significant other because we got together in high school. WE WERE TOGETHER FOR 4 YEARS AND ARE STILL SOMEWHAT ROMANTICALLY INVOLVED! Seriously, there's a good chance I'll marry him and we've spoken about it, but Mr. Threesome/Groupsex doesn't know this and I know he was just trying to do it in order to somehow gain "more" of me? He texted me on Saturday when I told him I was having friends over to ask me if I was throwing an orgy.... I tried to joke and be like, "Haha not unless I get us all to take off our shoes!" and he was like "Oh, I didn't know that." So I made fun of him alot and then he said "Well I prefer the traditional term." As in, he seriously texted me to see if I was seriously having an orgy... C'mon. -_- I guess that's what I get for telling him I went to a Rocky Horror live show that featured a raging threesome. He asked me why I didn't go in... I was topless and 15 at the time. Unless there were certain circumstances I wouldn't dive into a sea of 30 moshing, gyrating people. It's not that I'm prude or against orgies either... In fact I know for certain I'll host one at one point or another haha but I also like the sensuality of two (maybe three?) people. I guess it feels like my sexuality is being fetishized? Please let me know if you understand haha. Anyone ever deal with characters like these? Because I've dealt with it before but not to this degree! Yet when we're in person he's just normal... doesn't talk "dirty" like he does on AIM. Goddess, what happens to the size of men's balls once they can hide behind a computer screen?
Your 'threesome-at-all-cost-friend' smells like loads of trouble. I guess, I am not breaking any major news to you. Cool him off. If he wants to have sex with you, and you agree to it, tell him to stop all the ridiculous banter and get down to doing the things right. No threesomes and no other 'stories' needed. It might be a good idea to tell him that you dislike his online persona, and that you would rather, if he stuck with being your buddy IRL. Tell him, you may wanna take the rain check on the rest of his arrangements ...
Update! Lmao... the dude totally fucks like a bisexual. End of story. (Yes, I can tell.) I knew there had to be some catch... I was getting over a cold and he was on the phone and told me not to make any noise, then pointed out "Don't cough." Apparently he's married... he insists it's an open marriage and that he skipped going to the city with his wife for some show that wound up being canceled. Awkward silent ride home despiten my repeated attempts at conversation. I don't have a problem with married people - I'm fucking a couple right now. (As in, a PAIR of them lol) As long as she knows (and other than this circumstantially "sketchy" situation I have no reason to be) I'm cool. It's just the not telling me part. I'm not emotionally attached to him - I've just been conned into adultery too many times.
I could understand what he means. If the situation calls for it, go for it. I did it in a threesome and would more than likely do it again if the situation ever arose, but I wouldn't go out to look for a dude to blow.
If you sucked/want to suck another Mans dick from your own free will and your a guy, I'm sorry but your gay or bisexual, theres no oral only, one of my gay freinds is oral only.
