Can't cum from blowjobs/handjobs

I haven't had GF in years until recently and used to masturbate a lot, with tight grip and fast, and obviously this is different to how girls give blowjobs/handjobs (Unles I instruct otherwise) but want to be able to cum without her going as fast as a formula one race.

I guess my cock has got used to how I do it and stuff and now I have a GF I rarely masturbate, about once a week and when I do I try and do it slower with less of a tight grip, but when I do that I find it hard to cum without going back to how I used to.

Will this go if I keep doing it like this? Anyone else had this problem? Any tips? Thanks

 

i get head from my SO and she could never get me to cum from it. i usually have to stroke it for a bit then i'll cum

 

iv never cum from just a blowjob.took about 30 minits of sucking/me batting off. i batt off heaps in the end and came in her mouth. that was the only time in 1.5 years of dating my ex that i came without fucking.

 

I believe you guys just havent had a proper blow job yet. According to my husband, Im very good at it. I have never failed to claim my prize. I can make a blow job last a few minutes or 30 minutes, all depending on my mood.
As far as the OP is concerned, I really dont know the answer to your question. IT makes me wonder if you just need someone who gives great head or if indeed you are used to doing it your way and thats all your cock likes. Try thinking about how much your girlfriends blow job turns you on, even if it doesnt, and maybe that will eventually convince your cock other wise.

 

I have had 'proper blow jobs' from some very experienced women in the past, it's always been the same.

 

u need to slowly get away from the formula 1 racing masturbating
and train urself to go a bit slower

it works

im helping my newest lover slowly make the change
patience is a virtue

 

I think you are right and have been doing that, just difficult to get the same satisfaction when it is slow but maybe just takes time

 

Stop masturbating for a good long while, I mean completely cold turkey.

No matter how it's played with, you will see results.

 

I had the opposite problem, Im a slow stroker. MY gf was going too fast and I can't get the same amount of sensation, therefore hard to cum.

 

cumming to quick is the curse of the devil

 

i think i need to have a talk with my cock. tell him he needs to step it up and take the game winning shot when the game is on the line

 

what can you say.. some cars are built for high octane only

 

This is reminiscent of when I lost my virginity.

Being totally innocent about such things, I followed my train of logic which told me that a real vagina had to be no different to the hand that I was used to for masturbating inasmuch as it was designed to stimulate the penis towards ejaculation, and therefore the thrusting action required would also need to be identical.

Once I had made the initial penetration & savoured the most from the thrill of that brand new experience for as long as I could, I set about thrusting at the same rate as I would masturbate at - something I learned within a matter of seconds, by the screams for me to take it easy was NOT the ideal technique to use. I then did my best to adjust my thrusting to suit her body language, which involved my taking things as slow as I possibly could.

When I eventually climaxed, I was more surprised that I was able to physically get anywhere by taking things that slow, as I've never been able to so at that rate when masturbating, before or since.