how many have had fone sex?

Discussion in 'Masturbation' started by revvdup, Oct 6, 2009.

  1. revvdup

    revvdup Member

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    there was this chick i used to talk to over the phone. we lost contact and started talking again as friends. she told me she used to masturbate during our conversations. i asked her what the heck she was doing but she would never let up, maintaining nothing was going on. she said she's never had fone sex but masturbated w/o the other person knowing.
     
  2. AlexMartin79

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    I've masturbated on the phone while the other person is masturbating on more than one occasion. It can be pretty hot, actually.

    And I have done it while talking to someone on the phone and they didn't know. Although the only time I can think of they were naked at their house and talking about us making out and stuff.

    -AM79-
     
  3. PineMan

    PineMan Senior Member

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    I think I've had phone sex with pretty much every girlfriend I've had. This has usually followed on from private chats online in IRC which have, by chance or design, led on to become somewhat heated of a sexual nature, at which point the keyboard becomes a hindrance, so either a phone call is established or a Voice Chat opened on MSN.

    There was also one occasion, when I was in my early 20s, while I was still a virgin, long before the days of the internet, when I was on the phone to a former schoolmate of mine on a totally unrelated subject.

    Somehow, however, the topic turned to reminiscences on the days when we used to masturbate together when we were kids (in fact, if I remember correctly, it was me who introduced him to the art).

    I noticed the change in his breathing pattern, and could hear the familiar rhythmic sound of a stroking in the background, which also got me quite aroused. I asked him if he was masturbating, to which he replied "Uh-hu... You?". I told him I wasn't, but then went on to say, "Oh what the hell...", at which point I joined him.

    I had always known that he was openly Gay, and at this time I wasn't even that certain about my sexuality. I knew I was sexually aroused by men, but even moreso by women, and this caused me no end of confusion, as there was no internet to learn what these Bi-sexual feelings were all about.

    However, not to veer from the subject in hand, so to speak, mutually masturbating with someone over the phone can be extremely arousing - especially if the person is someone you have already had sex with, when you can relive the experiences, or even with someone who you expect to have sex with - in which case you can get to plan ahead, by way of fantasy.

    You get to hear not only the vocal responses from someone who you know is doing exactly the same as you are, with you as their fantasy subject as well, but when you also get to hear the physical sounds as they gradually progress through the stages.

    With a woman, the sounds become squelchier, as more & more of the vaginal lubricants are released, and with a man, the slapping of the hand against the pubis, and in both instances you can recognise the increase in the tempo of the stroking as they approach the inevitable climax, which can often sufficiently arousing mentally, so as to send you over the edge to a climax of your own, thus resulting in a mutual orgasm.
     
  4. marbchic

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    i did it once and felt more naked than naked..if that makes any sense? guess i wasn't sure if i was doin it right..got shy and left it alone
     
  5. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    I'm surviving on good phone right now. I'm a couple states away from my partner and I seem to have introduced him to the concept...fooled me.. he's very very good with description.
    Had a wake up call this morning and I was thinking that since he had someone staying over on the couch, it would be a pg rated call. oh, my no.

    what 's really good for us is the afterglow talk, where we can talk about what we like/dislike/ never tried/want to try.
    We have yet to be physically intimate, so this is a learning ground for us.
     
  6. LorettaYoungSilks

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    Would deffo give it a bash, always wondered.
     
  7. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    I def. get that. It makes me feel more vulnerable than physical sex.
    but, with a quarter continent and 94 days physically separating us, talk to me, baby!
     
  8. revvdup

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    i was caught off guard the first time it was happening. i couldn't bust a nut and left w/ blue balls that day.
     
  9. gondo

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    Phone-stroked online a few times. Like previous posters, found it disturbingly intense.
     
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  11. Stomped

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    Tried it for a several times with the same girl, pretty funny I think.
     
  12. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    update: he flew out for a surprise visit.
    We talked about how the phone made the first visit much more chill. We knew what the other one liked already. How's THAT for a bonus?
     
  13. revvdup

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    drummin,

    dont know how you can survive being apart majority of the time.
     

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