Size affecting relationship?

Has anyone ever felt that their size guys or girls was too big where it adversly affected a relationship? Either their partner was obsessed, or too big to be comfortable? For clarification, we're talkin manhood or womanhood, aka genitalia!

 

Well, I think size affects all relationships just in varying degrees.

I'm not the biggest, I think I may be on the small side, but my girlfriend is real tight. Sometimes, too tight for me to even get it in (especially when changing positions). However, despite this, I absolutely love her tightness, and with how much condoms numb me, don't know how much sensation I would get if she were much looser.

I had another friend, his first girlfriend, quite frankly, was a total slut. She was very very experienced and had had both much bigger cocks and much smaller cocks than his; but always insisted that his cock fit perfectly inside of her.

 

Genitalia for sure.... thanks for the clarification

 

Didn't mean to kill the tread everyone haha, keep on goin!

 

Sometimes threads on this forum can be rather slow, sometimes they just never catch on.
Patience.

 

Yea true dat, I have alot of patience most of the time

 

Must be noone else has this problem, ne one? Guys or Gals?

 

as a man who loves anal sex (receiving), no, I've never been with too big of a cock. But I am into some extreme anal play. If you are with a man who is too big just make him take his time, use lube, practice some stretching techinques with toys.

 

Most times, when size affects relationships is when it is the man who is insecure of himself. Being insecure about this will only drag your relationship down to both of you not liking the sex....If you are a guy and worried about this, then learn other ways to plz her, you should really do this regardless but even more so.

the ppl who are most insecure about this are actually guys who fall in the avg. range.

 

H234... I appreciate the advice and respect everything, but i'm definitly as straight as they come.

420, thanks for the advice, i'm definitly not insecure about it. It's a size compatibility issue.

Drumminmama I appreciate the advice, i could only dream of having a fling right now, but I neever would. hot to think about though don't temp my thoughts lol. We've tried time, foreplay, patience, lube no luck I need some kinda outlet!

For all those that have left me good advice, no worries, i'm definitly staying faithful, it's how I work.

 

Ok the dry spell is going on 3 weeks now, aren't relationships supposed to be plentiful? Dicouraged and sad and unsatisfied

 

I had a problem with my ex. He was right at 10 inches and about as thick as my fucking wrist. I get extremely wet (soaking the sheets wet) and it didn't help. I could only take 8 inches before he was hitting my cervix. I'd bleed during and after sex and I had so many lacerations that I couldn't pee without wanting to scream. I could barely walk straight because my pussy felt like it had been torn to shreds. I kept thinking it would get better but it never did. I fucked him for over 3 months and it was painful each time. My vagina is made small and can only take so much. I got drunk once and let the lil fucker stick it in my ass. The next day my ass felt fine.

I'm talking to a new guy now who is a little over 9 but not as thick. Hopefully it will go well when we do decide to go all the way.

 

OK click, that's too freaky, I feel like you're reading my mind now, or at least part of my life's story. It'd be great to talk alot more somehow?

 

I've had one guy that was two long, he would bruise my cervix which stung like a bitch. For the most part though I love me a nice thick dick, and can take the pain of being stretched much better then my cervix being hammered.

 

OK, i'm 29 and over 10 inches, always been w/ the same woman and recently broke things off. I hate to sound like a guy (no criticism please), but i'm itching to have some fun and get around after about 12 years. Anyone else in the same boat?

 

Most women, not all women, but most enjoy the sensation of being stretched, especially if they are very aroused.

It isn't always the cervix that being banged, though that does happen. Any women ever consider that it is the upper END, the very end of the vagina, the posterior fornix, that is being pushed to its limits? That causes pain too, and I think that women feel that and think its always their cervix.

 

Don't forget STI's as a cause for pain, even where the guy's got a big penis - Chlamydia etc

 

That doesn't typically happen until you get the STD(/STI) doesn't seem to fit this scenario too well..