Yes, it finally happened at the age of 30. I am done dating, chasing women, looking for true love and all that crap. I stopped having sex as well and have been fine for a month already. Since then my life became a lot calmer and I feel at ease. I no longer have to try hard to find the right one, or to impress anyone, spend money, entertain etc. I have my hobbies, reading, music, gym, my cars, cruising and such and they do me just fine. AS far as sex goes, I am so happy to have that waste of time out of my life. Somehow 30 minutes of hardcore fucking for 3 seconds of orgasm just sounds like a big scam to me. My part time girl is very unhappy about this, but I am. I was good at it too, but I have lost any interest in women/sex I ever had. There is no down side to this, only ups. I sleep better, save more money, read more, am calmer and get to enjoy days a bit more as they go by! Please, no bashing, but if someone feels alike, do chime in. How did this happen and where did it take you? Thanks!
maybe, you try too hard to please your partner, and dont feel satisfied enough in return stop tryin so hard and enjoy sex!! dont make it into like work, something you HAVE to do.. just relax enjoy it, and sometimes be a bit selfish for what you want
well whatever is best for you amigo if thats what you want, and makes you feel good , well then just keep doin what you're doin
i thought maybe u must have made the switch to men. but seriously maybe its just the girl ur fucking, she must be giving u the shits.
Ever seen '40 days and 40 nights'? Just in the improbable chance we all start betting on your sex life, and sticking viagra in your coffee- just fuck. And like someone else pointed at, probably best you fuck anybody else than whoever your previous knock off was!
Maybe just start looking for a woman you get along well with? maybe a realtionship with sex and not sex with a relationship would do you well.
Yeah i agree sex /relationship is a joke. People just want you to be with someone like its "part of life". It makes me sick that people can't understand that some people rather be alone.
There is certainly nothing wrong with wanting to be alone and getting to know yourself better, and at some point in the future some one may get your attention and it will put you back in the game, no need to rush or stress over it. There will allmost always be some one who wants to '' fix you up '' you have to deal with however.
