Am I gay? I don't know.

Something really, really, weird is happening to me.

It started last week. Well, I work at a Diner (Sam's No:3 in Denver, come visit us) I'm a chef there. So, one night I see this gorgeous lady at the counter. She had this beautiful brown hair with the most subtle blonde highlights, the cutest face, a sweet nose ring, and the best mix n' match of Hot Topic clothes ever.

I thought "Well, I haven't been laid in six months, so, why not?" so I personally bring her the onion rings she ordered. I introduce myself, and we small talk. Her name is "Jamie". She tells me she's in college and is visiting her cousins and blah blah blah. She had one of those raspy chick voices, I liked it.

So, I play the game, I bring her the food myself and we talk some more and I convince her to go out for some ice cream after I got myself off early. At this point, I'm psyced as shit "Yes! Getting pussy tonight!" I thought to myself.

Anyway, we go out for ice cream. We walk around a bit, all that bullshit. I make stuff up, she giggles. I walk her to her hotel and she kisses me on the cheek. I wasn't getting laid after all. She did give me her number though, I wasn't giving up just yet.

So, fast forward a few days, I call her again, maybe I can play the "We'll never see each other again" card, is there such a card? I don't know, I was bored and horny.

I ask her out again, she seems really excited. We go see the new Terminator movie, I had already seen it, so I wasn't distracted. I put my arm around her, it all goes good. I lean in, but, no go, she just doesn't notice me.

We get back to her hotel and she says it "Do want to come up for coffee?" YES! HA! I'm the ultra male! Smoothest guy ever! Everyone sucks but me!

I go up there (The Hyatt, nice place) and we immediately start making out. Very passionate and romantic and awesome.

So, I unzip her sweatshirt and I already knew she was flat chested but, not much there under the t-shirt. It didn't even look like he was wearing a bra. We have a collaborative effort taking the shirt off and

There's nothing. It's nothing. Just nothing.

I was confused, so many things went through my mind:

"You made out with a guy!"

"Dude! You're gay!"

"How could you not tell!? Idiot!"

I don't know, I never could tell what an Adam's apple really was!

She looks like a chick! What the hell is going on?!

Look, I've never had any problems with gays, I know it's not a choice. I just feel like I've never had second thoughts about my sexuality.

Anyway, I'm sitting there on top of him completely frozen. "What's wrong?" he says.

I just make something up about me having to get up early the next morning and that I'd call him back. It was really weird. I left a shirtless man behind. We texted a little today. He seems the think I knew he was a man the whole time, but it's weird.

Here's the thing, the time I spent with him, and kissing him. I liked it.

So, I still have is number in my phone, should I hit him up one more time before he leaves?

I'm just not sure if I'm gay. My mind tells me I like this person, regardless of their gender, but what if I'm only attracted to them because they look so much like a woman?

It's weird asking advice on the internet, but this placed seemed pretty good. I really don't know if I could take this up with my friends, I don't want to freak them out. Not that they're against it, just a weird thing to come out and ask about.



Pffft, Jamie, give me a break

 

If you like chicks - messing around with a guy does not make you gay.
Bisexual is even arguable - it may just be that human sexuality is a fluid thing.
You only got one life, if it seems like something you might want to try - why not? After all, you were enjoying yourself.

 

WHAT?! I read all of that and there's not ONE mention of wizards or vampires. Sheesh!

 

A unicorn would have been nice, too.

 

mr. lemons.....queer as a 3 dollar bill...now stay away from the real women

 

Mr. Lemons, another guest opening a thread with one post and it's been three days now and no response back. (I really wish they would bring back the restriction that you had to make so many posts before you could start a thread)

But, since this is the norm here for mysterious guests, even those with great story-telling skills, to start threads with one post that we regulars continue for several pages, I'll bite.

Don't worry about your sexuality. Ppl analyse too much, want to put labels on themselves, force themselves into some kinda box. I still see myself as bisexual even tho I haven't done a woman in a decade and only do men. That's just my history. For all practical purposes I am gay.

When I was younger, just starting to have sex with guys and discovering that I was bisexual, I found it rather strange that there was such a big deal about it.

One guy who took me home regularly liked me fucking him in the ass and we would do it missionary style. He'd wrap his legs around me just like a woman. What surprised me was just how much it was like fucking a woman - only tighter - which made it better for me. Sex is Sex! Doesn't matter if it is a guy or a girl you're having it with.

I never was turned on much by tranies and drag queens scare me more than clowns but guess I would have sex with either. (I'm a guy that way ).

So, to OP, if you are still lurking this thread you started and haven't responded to, call Jamie and set up a date. If he's a bottom (likely) you'll enjoy fucking his ass. But, take a leap, do some oral on him just for the experience of really making love to a man.

 

Yeah, well, I didn't reply cause nobody would give me any advice, I told you he was in town for only a couple days, I only got like one reply, gosh

Yeah, I acted on it, I called him back and explained how I didn't know he was a dude but I didn't care. Then we made out but that's about it, I didn't want to go into assfucking right away, I don't even think I want to do that.

I'll be under the impression that I'm bi, which is fine, it was just kind of weird sensation when I first figured it out.

Thanks for the advice, regardless of it being LATE!!

 

Well all sounds like a nice thought provoking experience to me =)
Was it much different than making out with a girl to you?

 

It felt pretty different, but it still felt good. I don't know, it was weird.

 

I think I can pretty much imagine what kissing a guy would be like (I'm pretty good at imagining undone experiences for some reason) - I just can't tell if I'd like it =P

 

lol, that's hilarious.

 

I had very similar experience, he was really a girl,we had sex and everything, several times, that happened years ago, now I am bi, I am married with a bunch of kids, and who cares...

 

Pansexual

 

Not to be unhelpful. But this thread made me laugh.

 

Not necessarily.

 

lol, never happened to me but this sounds pretty hot, I would have done him then and there. I'm not sure about you being bisexual but it's quite possible. I just think you should fuck whoever you like regardless of their gender.