Fiancee acts weird, spits up blood and has chest pain...is he doing drugs???

hes a cokehead hope ull get over him ,what if the baby is born and he s having such behaviour around the baby or even worse maybe by that time he already punched u into some hospital.

 

Most of the time it's that "cute nice girls" aren't ready to settle down so they have to risk things and play it stupid and they don't realize it until they fuck up and can't do anything about it... then they wander around as a single mother trying to find a "real man" to fall in love with that will support them and their child... it's quite simple, really. I just don't get why... people have no common sense.

 

You need to get yourself out of that situation as soon as possible, if not for your own sake, for your baby's. You don't want your child to grow up around someone like that, unless he is willing to get help for his problems.

Think of your little one. When you're a mother, you think of your children before everything and anything else.

Many hugs, and good luck to you...

 

Whatever his reasons Please follow everybody's advice here & get away from him and do not look back & do not allow him to fill your head full of pitiful lies to get you to stay with him, nor that guilt trip shit,"If you love me".....Let someone else be his victim. It doesn't have to be you! Why do you think he is an "EX"????
No woman deserves verbal abuse, temper tantrums nor any abuse period! All women deserve upmost respect! Maybe you should enter into counceling yourself & learn why you would pick someone like this. These type of men come with many different faces. You need to learn how to recognize them so that you can easily make the better choice.

Example:
Recently a guy from work asked if I would like to go out with him sometime. He's nice looking and in my age range. So, I thought what the hey. I had talked with him a little bit to know he moved here from another nearby city & he had said his wife died of cancer less than a year ago. He said he'd give me his number after work, which is when he comes on the shift (when I'm leaving my shift generally).
To make a short story shorter....I finally hooked up with him lastnight. We talked alot about different things regarding our personal selves.....the wife thing he seemed to steer away from(flag #1)....and that concerned me, as I felt one needs to deal with such things in order to move on. Well, come towards the end of the evening.....He blurted outta nowhere that his wife wasn't dead. I got up & walked out. He called me the next day asking if I would at least listen. I listened. And the outcome remained the same. I told him, "A Lie is a Lie & you do not begin any relationship/friendship based on A Lie, thus no, I will not go out with you again & trust you learned something from your mistake."

When you sense those Red Flags LISTEN TO THEM! Most of us women try to rationalize them away and before we know it are involved in something we aren't sure how to emotionally get out of! Womens Intuition IS NEVER WRONG!! Honesty & Respect is most important! Don't allow his issues to become yours! There are nice men out there somewhere. Not that it is a necessity.

 

yep could be drugs

 

sounds like coke to me... I wouldn't Jump out of this quite so quick, try and approach him about his problems and If hes willing to try and fix his shit then stay engaged.

 

I remember you posting about this guy forever ago.... run girl! run!

 

Absolutely! You have a new top priority, honey. It's not you anymore, it's that innocent baby that is totally depending on you for everything. That little angel deserves much more than this guy will ever be able to offer. Do the right thing and raise your baby in a loving and peaceful home. Good luck, sweetie.

 

Run! Flee!