guys that prefer head over actual sex?

I like sex more because one of my biggest turn ons is pleasing my partner, not just being lazy and doing nothing, but as Ive said. That is awesome sometimes

 

I've never been with a girl so far who can orgasm from sex anyway, so if I want to please her why would we have sex? MOST girls do NOT orgasm from sex, but through oral or getting fingered, etc. I've only had two real girlfriends, just fooled around with other girls, but both of those girls had never orgasmed from sex before. Heck my current GF can barely orgasm at all, through anything, except for about an hour playing with herself. It's remarkable. Poor girls.

 

I really don't know, but bj's have been an obsession of mine, I'm afraid, for quite some time, though I've been equally obsessing over why this should be so, feeling that perhaps this isn't the "healthiest" of sexual fixations. I enjoy "regular" dick 'n vag sex too, but somehow to me - though I've been told by the women in question they tend to feel the opposite - oral feels like the most intimate form of sexual relations. Ain't gonna happen unless there is absolute trust, the guy trusting the girl not to go "chomp" - a latent fear in all men, according to Freud - and, I guess, the girl trusting the guy not to go AWOL and try some of that horrible as-seen-on-youporn face fucking action. I've heard it said that, for a woman to take a man in her mouth, it is a sign of acceptance, particularly when she ingests the man's semen.

Mind you, I return the favor, always, in fact I like to make a point of getting a bed partner off twice (once before I do, and once after) but I sometimes wonder if my thing with bj's doesn't just say a whole lot about my psychological constitution. Perhaps it's a deep need on my part that I have a willing partner to, so to speak, suck my dick, in order for me to feel good, which - I don't know - might just make me an asshole, but whatever...

 

I used to be all about getting my dick sucked while I play with the girl like if she is on the side so that was better than sex.

But the girl I am with now cums just from sex and it is really amazing I don't think I could think of a better way of getting off. I also like the feeling of being totally drained after sex, like not being able to even walk around.

 

I love going down on a woman, especially as I'm confident of giving her an orgasm that way, whereas I rarely do with cock.

 

The late great Leo Durocher said that, "nice guys finish last." So, gentlemen, make sure that your s/o is satisfied first. If a blowjob is your preferred way to finish, then it's up to your s/o to please you!!

 

another way of thinking abt this is that perhaps sometimes it takes some men a bit of time to "recharge".

 

I think sex is way too tiring, I mean damn I'm in great shape and young too, but at least it seems to me (maybe girls I've been with just don't DO enough...) that it's way too much effort. I honestly don't think sex is that great at all, I think it's totally overrated. Maybe if I was having sex with Megan Fox, but sex even with a cute girl is just... blah. It's alright. I swear it's easier to just jerk off. I mean I always have to last like 30 minutes at least, because girls take forever to get off, or they don't at all, and I have to do all of the work, and end up just super tired. I honestly think it's bullcrap, it's just NOT fun.

And the repetitive motion, maybe guys and girls are just not often in sync, because my gf complains if the rhythm isn't 100% perfect, yet for me, I hate that. I want it to be totally out of sync, because if it's exactly the same every thrust, same speed, depth, etc., it feels so boring after about a minute, I can't even stay hard easily because I'm just bored to tears. It's just all so overrated.

I'd take head any day. Really relaxing, feels much, much, much better, it's just hot in general. I only have sex for the girl honestly, for me, I could live without.

 

yeh, i`ve got bored w/the perfect rythym thing before too. don`t touch here, or there. ow my hair, or don`t mess it up. i gotta shave my legs first. don`t lick my legs. don`t touch my feet. geez, sensuality has gone out the window. replaced by bang, & maybe boom. i think sex has a become a kinda "bling" as it were. or maybe even an anti-bling.

 

Tough call. Each method has it's own shtick.

Pussy will give me a generally good fuck overall and the orgasms can be quite powerful...while a mouth will give me a rather non-feeling to mediocre overall experience until it's time to cum, which for some reason are so powerful it feels like my load shots alone will blow out the back of her head.

 

why does everyone blame EVERY little sexual thing they find odd on porn?

you do realize sex came first, people?

 

Not in this day and age...

 

I dated a guy that had trouble staying hard in sex. but was stiff as a rod and forever if giving him a blow job. His problem was he was so porn addicted he had trouble having real sex and was used to being hand-job or blow-job and not actually having to participate with another human. That got old fast! He was a great f*ck when IT worked. Due to his porn addiction he couldn't relate to real women that well so he preferred the bj or handjob

 

I used to LOVE having a blowjob over cumming in a womans vagina, till I met my current partner. We connect so much so (we are getting married) that even when she asks me to cum in her mouth I tell her I'd rather cum in her vagina (I must be really in love I think) I just love the feeling of being inside her.

So for me, I'd take the vagina over a blowjob

 

I wouldn't say I prefer to have a bj over intercourse and I don't prefer intercourse over bj's, they both have their own importance, hard to bang a girl goin down the freeway but u can get good head, you can give a chick oral this way too but I don't recommend it b/c they are bad enough drivers as it is. But if you have a chick that digs giving good head and takes pride in it, then combine with having great sex and you have a great experience.

 

Ahahaha
+rep

Also, that reminded me of a song by a local rap group, and I was feeling sorta bleh, but my in-head-dj is playing that song now, and I iz happy =D

 

I prefer guys who prefer oral. That relevant?

 

that's awesome is what it is

 

I find Oral (giving & taking) pretty much a must as part of foreplay, but that's as far as it goes. It's only the starter to the main course.

However, I can see the logic behind it, as Oral Sex would, in theory, be far more more capable of stimulating the neural receptors, as the lips can tighten far more around the shaft, whilst the tongue can play the sort of games with the glans that no vagina could possibly match. The thing is, though, it's all down, once again, to the primary erogenous zone - that is to say, the brain & what arouses the individual most. Personally I am aroused most by the idea of a penis sexually penetrating a partner, for the full course - ie. including ejaculation, which is why I find the "Money Shots" in porn videos where the man pulls out for the ejaculation to be a waste of what might otherwise be a good video. I also find the idea of ejaculating into the mouth a turn off, even though I have done it with sexual partners, but only grudgingly, at their own request.

 

Me too, but after being with someone for a while I'd kinda like for her to return the favor... :toetap05: