Do You Ever Find Yourself...

Wishing you weren't gay? I do sometimes. I don't know what it is, but I just feel like things would be so much simpler for me if I wasn't gay. But then there are times when I can't imagine living any other way.

 

Nope. Even if being gay were purely a free choice, I would have gone for it.

Actually, my life is far simpler and easier to manage this way. I do not see myself as a family man at all.

I enjoy being in full control of my life, making decisions that affect me and really no one else. I call it freedom, and would not change it for anything...

KD

 

people should be who they want to be

 

No, never. It gets on the nerves of the people who are fools.
Something I always draw pleasure from.
Simpler? Perhaps, but definatley not as fun.
I can't comment whether it's my choice or not, i don't know for sure.
Even if it is, so what? It's your choice and fuck anyone who says otherwise.

 

I'm straight and my life is pretty damn easy. Gay or straight doesn't dictate the trails and tribulations of life. I have a few cousins who are gay and they seems to also have easy lives. I've also known gay and straight people with difficult lives

 

There are reasons one may want to be gay or reasons why one may not want to be gay
Does it make it more complex or more simple?

Growing up as the target of Jokes in an atmosphere of animosity
Making sense of severely unreceptive cultural movements and the
Subjective interpretation of the spiritual world view poetically integrated to form constrictive indoctrinated Ideas broadcast somehow as the standalone origin of Morality!
That's not how I really think it is.
I think Morality is an individualistically derived entity that Is alive with syntax
Joy! Happiness and fulfillment Is the token, the steaks at large. The parcel of Life Is a gift and this kind of thing =) LoL

 

Life would also be easier if I had more money or were taller. It's probably no different from life being easier if I weren't gay.

 

Even thought being gay has arguably given me nothing but grief thus far in my life, I wouldn't say I would rather be straight. I can't exactly pin down why I feel this way, but I've never really felt differently.

 

never once in my life

 

Quite Content To Be On The Rainbow Side Of The Fence Thanks....



Cheers Glen.

 

From what I've seen straight couples that have a bunch of kids, half a football team, 3 or more, and those that dont have kids seem to be a lot happier than the rest.

Just one or two kids, a lot of sacrifice, but not enough kids for everyone to really like at least one family member.

As for Gay I dont think they are at the top of the happiness ladder, but they damn sure arent at the bottom

 

Nothing is easy in life,and being gay has been a challenge in some ways.I'm happy though;and wouldn't want it any other way.

 

nope. i like that i like men.

 

I like being gay, the community is a real bright, sociable one. I think had I not had as good a group of like minded friends it wouldn't be the case maybe.

 

I don't think I've had much difficulty with being gay, because my friends and family have all been very supportive. In high school, I didn't really "act" gay, not because I was ashamed of it, but I really didn't think it was anyone's business. So I never really got picked on or anything...

If it were a matter of choice, I would still choose to be gay. It just makes life more fun, more fulfilling.

 

I am not gay, but I am an intersex female. Even to this day I still wish I was born a normal girl, and not a freak like I am. I have no doubts my life would be A LOT easier if I was born with the right body.

 

I would have chosen to be gay had I been given teh choice. I think you are more free in your mind, and you basically experience new things that are quite hot and things that other will never go through. I'd rather live miserably gay than happily straight. lol