Ok so I met these 2 guys on thursday last week, matt and shane. They both ended up coming over back to my place with my roommate to play cards and drink. The night ended they went home. The whole night I was amused with shane and thought he was a very sweet guy. I added them both on facebook and got matt's phone number. Shane hadn't added me back yet. Friday night I got invited out to the bar but I didn't feel like going, so I went to matt's to watch movies... we watched a couple then started getting alittle cuddly... 5am rolled around and I was to tired to drive home so I spent the night in in his bed. We cuddled and kissed alittle. Once we woke up I went home. Saturday night I went out to the bar with the 2 guys and my roommate and my best guy friend... everyone always thinks im dating my best guy friend but were not..were just close. Anyways... so i end up sitting in the booth with matt for a while, then they went out for a smoke and I went dancing with my bestfriend. They came back and shane asked me to dance...we danced like 5 dances and these 2 girls... both who just know Of me kept pushing me away from shane cuz they thought my boyfriend was getting mad..but hes not my boyfriend.. So I get called a slut. lovely these 2 chicks know nothing about me. That night I went back to matts to just watch movies cuz he left the bar early. I ended up staying again.. this time he tried something but I stopped him right away, I just dont like matt that way. So now I have people hating me because of this stupid drama... I prefer shane I like shane alot... but I really dont like matt, hes not my type and I would rather prefer his friendship. Idk what to do, I am sick of hurting people... If I could go back and redo it all I would of never got matt's number in the first place. Oh btw both guys adore me.
1 ) You tell people you're NOT going out with your best friend. 2 ) If you clearly know that you're interested in Shane, and NOT in Matt, then you know exactly what to do. 3 ) Matt will get over it. 4 ) Who "hates" you exactly? Those girls? Well, exercise the point number one. If they still don't get it, then you might also try that in French and see if they understand it better. 5 ) In the event where Shane for some odd reason decides to back out then... Well, in that case, I'm sorry.
