WOMEN'S SURVEY: Dear ma'ams, how would your list of ALL of the purposes of a woman...

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  1. IANABIAP

    IANABIAP Member

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    ...in a male-female relationship read:)?

    I mean I've heard it said alot, and I agree 100% that fulfillment of the natural physical desires is not the only purpose of a woman (in a male-female relationship.) But this might make someone wonder, what exactly then are all of a woman's purposes in a male-female relationship? How would your list read?:)
     
  2. IANABIAP

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    My thoughts on other purposes of a woman in a male-female relationship? "One head ain't better than two" - The great rapper Q-Tip:D. I think that a woman would give another brain and mind that could help a man. Um...other things?...darn, I can't think of anything else lol.
     
  3. honeyfugle

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    It depend on a lot of things.
    Many women are inclined to "mother" their partner, so many would say that a requirement for a woman is to look after the man, but of course mothering a partner is destructive to a relationship.
    Old fashioned folk would say that a woman's job is to be housewife. In a way, many men still expect women to be the homemaker. Maybe subconsciously people still think this is a woman's role.

    Emotionally speaking, I would say, women should be strong, but caring and loving. And in the Bible, woman is created as a companion for the man so he would not be lonely.
    So, in relationships, I would say our purpose is to be caring, loving and emotional, to be a companion when our man needs it the most.

    I like this passage. I'll explain what I mean by it.
    Basically, it means she is "fruitful", meaning everything she does will be successful for herself and her family and from their happiness she will be even more successful.
     
  4. IANABIAP

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    Thanks honeyfugle for answering:):). I think that this statement is actually an incorrect assumption that many people make...the Bible says that it was not good that the man be alone, but it does not say that man's being alone was bad because man was lonely. It said that women were "helpmeets" meaning that it was bad that the man was alone because he needed a helper, and not (necessarily) because he was lonely:).

    I think alot of men might be like me, prefer being alone (loner) and are really uncomfortable with closeness and relationships. I think it's a misinterpretation of Gen. 2:18 to say that all men get lonely. I LOVES ME SOLITUDE:D. I think Gen. 2:18 means that men need helpers in their work and not that they all get lonely...
     
  5. MaccaByrd

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    I like to think it's the same reasons a woman wants the companionship of a particular man. It never occured to me it would be anything other than that. Men don't need women to make their beds for them any more than women need men to hunt for them these days.

    There are some primal instincts left in all of us, but I think those come secondary to fondness.
     
  6. IANABIAP

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    OK. Happiness from having someone around that you are fond of?
     
  7. If you prefer to be alone or a loner why the fuck are you asking what role a woman plays in the male/female relationship. I was put on this earth to give my partner a hard time and continually point out his weeknesses and failings and he loves it. He knows his position in the big scheme of things and the dog even comes higher up the pecking order than him! So don't ask what the role of the woman is, take time to think if the man actually fulfils any useful purpose within the relationship. ;)
     
  8. honeyfugle

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    Crikey, that doesn't sound like a very loving relationship... :(
     
  9. IANABIAP

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    fiery!:d

    EDIT - Caps wont work for some mysterious reason. Eh-hem:D:D
     
  10. IANABIAP

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    This is more of a social science question than a personal question if anybody was wondering:D. Thanks for any help in my social science quest:D.
     
  11. Psychopsilocybin

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    Well the woman's "purpose" in a relationship is to be responsible for all communication, emotional support, cooking, cleaning, future baby-raising, excitement, planning, expressions of love/emotion, and of course, providing the pussy and sucking the dick.
     
  12. Fingermouse

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    Very drole thread
     
  13. Fingermouse

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    I'm sure they'll live. I was on this forum at 14 and I turned out alright...ish
     
  14. drumminmama

    drumminmama Super Moderator Super Moderator

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    it's "droll."

    A woman's role in a partnership is support, belief, forgiveness, an object of her partner's worship, a giving, contributing part of making two people so much more than the sum of their parts.
    Now, What is a man's role? Support, belief, forgiveness, an object of his partner's worship, a giving, contributing part of making two people so much more than the sum of their parts.
     
  15. IANABIAP

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    Thank you drumminmama:):)...I don't know about worshipping anything that dies though:hat:.
     
  16. Fingermouse

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    I meant it was weird and funny. I guess the word isn't used in English spelled like that. Do excuse me while I weep in the corner:p
     
  17. Fingermouse

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    Your "what" didn't need to be capitalised.
    "It's" should also have begun with a capital letter.
     
  18. honeyfugle

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    The mea[SIZE=-1]ni[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]ng is the same. The word "droll" comes from the Fre[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]nch "[/SIZE]drĂ´le[SIZE=-1]" which mea[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]n pretty much the same o[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]nly with slight spelli[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]ng differe[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]nce. I thi[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]nk you may have had[/SIZE][SIZE=-1] the Fre[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]nch spelli[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]ng i[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]n mi[/SIZE][SIZE=-1]nd. :)[/SIZE]
     
  19. Fingermouse

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    Thanks honey:eek: Yeah I did. I'm often Frenchising late at night...or just when I'm feeling a bit slow. It can get confusing!
     
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