I enjoy having anal sex, I love to watch any porn with anal sex, and I've been fantasizing about having hot anal with a guy for the first time. I'm sure a few of you have gone through this. I'm anxious to give it a try. Maybe a threesome first, to w atch and learn, and so I'm not the center of attention? Advice is greatly appreciated.
I would focus on finding a suitable partner for my 'first time', and I would keep it a 1:1 situation. Threesomes are for well-versed players who know the technique and have a strong vibe going... I cannot think of many guys who would want to have a third guy passively 'watch and learn' while they are going at it. When it comes to sex, the most basic rule is that one of giving and taking pleasure. You are a welcome player, if you manage to find your proper role by answering the simple question: "What's in it for the other dude(s)?" Equally so, doing it for the first time (bottom or top) requires some guidance and actual help on the part of your partner. This ain't rocket science but the whole thing is actually a bit more complicated than it looks like on the porn. Whereas, you may find two guys who would let you watch for something (or even for nothing) they will be most likely into each other, and you will be just having a live porn playing before your eyes. Exciting as this may be, you'll still be no wiser for that. You can learn the ropes only by being in it (pun nothwithstanding), and not by being an observer. KD
1on1 is the best imo. Being the center of attention is not a bad thing here since you kind of want to let him know how you are feeling on things. communication is needed!
