Dream guy!!!!

i'm sure everyone has a different opinion about this, but the guy i'm with is totally (well pretty much) everything i've ever wanted. lol. he's so sweet and he's fun to hang out with. we go out and do stuff together, but we also have a good time just sitting around watching tv and shit. i once took him down to my grandpa's house in the country for a weekend. usually when i take people down there and have to spend the whole weekend with them, i start to see all the annoying little things they do and it just makes me like them less, but when i took him down there i only liked him more, like seriously, i knew i wanted to spend the rest of my life with him after that. that weekend was like the final thing that made me realize how awesome he was for me. he likes the same kind of stuff i do, like being outside and in the country away from the city and people and shit and just hangin out and ridin fourwheelers and having fun. the only fault i've found in him so far is the fact that he's a trouble maker. like he was always in trouble in school. that just kinda makes me mad cuz i'm a really good kid, like i've never had detention or anything. other than that, he's just so nice and sweet and perfect and fun. like he's the only guy who ever even asked me out on a fucking date. and we weren't even going out yet when he asked me. that made me really happy.

 

ElChivato its so cool youre so young and you know what you want.

i get the sense that alot of people what to know the reason why i asked this very interesting question, so here it is. the whole reason for me asking this question is simple, i just lost over a hundred pounds and my whole motivation for loosing that much weight was to get girls( i know its kinda creepy but i was so depressed and that was the motivation

i would always see all these skinny pretty people walking around with their friends and significant other and i would think to myself that the whole reason was because they were skinny and pretty. so i started to work out eat right and dress better,

well i lost the weight and its still hard as hell to get girls to like me.
so i thought to myself that i should ask this question see what comes up great answers girls.

i think that women in general look for a guys personality more than a guys looks or wallet..... correct me if ime wrong.

 

yeah that's true. i mean, i wouldn't be dating justin if he was just super cute and was a real asshole to me. it just so happens that i really found him attractive and that's why i started talking to him and hanging out with him in the first place. but he's just really sweet. he takes me out and does cute little things for me and i've never been with a guy who did that before so it just makes me crazy happy when he does.

good luck to you and i hope you find someone really cool who likes you for you and not just how you look man.

 

Yeah i have always been skinny and good looking, I never seem to be able to make a good enough personality though. It's such a fucking joke, it feels like i have to make my own personality from scratch in order to get girls to like me. I have no problem talking to guys cause theres no pressure, i still just hate the whole talking game its so fucking stupid i wish nobody ever talked they just went to hipforums.

 

I don't like talking unless there's something worth saying. Do other people enjoy this or are they just better at faking it than me?

There's definitely no one answer for the original question, even for one girl.

 

I always feel a little better when I see that I'm not the only one.

Does anyone else's brain turn to goop in situations where you are in conversation with or are obligated to talk to members of the opposite sex?

I feel like I still have the dating maturity of a fifth grader. Because I do. How can you move beyond that if you've never been in a relationship? And who the hell would even consider being in one with you if you can't do it any better than a fifth grader? I'm stuck in a hole. Who else is in here? I can't see you cause it's so dark. You gotta shout!

 

Dating maturity? I'm a 'dating infant' then. I guess it just happens when and how it happens. Doesn't mean you have to do things the conventional way. That's an attitude that's easy to logically say and harder to emotionally adopt. I keep thinking there's a normalcy I have to aspire to and who could blame you or I? Maybe there is.

Anyway, I still have the slight issue of seeing the opposite sex as some kind of alien species.

 

yep they are a complicated species

 

Maybe it's a question of self-confidence? I'm really social and at ease to talk to the opposite sex, most of the time I have a blast. I don't feel like I have to flirt or impress somebody, I just remain myself, have fun, make jokes or witty comments and see what happens. It's my recipe for success.

 

There are no "dream" men just hallucinations of hope!
Everything is romanticized, I would like a man who is as strange as me though.

 

Is that ture???

 

i would luv 2 find a guy whos a total hippy...like me. a guy who nos who he is and stays tru 2 himself...always

 

I think a dream guy would be a little boring, right? He would need to have some faults and surprises up his sleeve to keep me interested.

ALSO, I think the perfect man would make me feel self conscious all the time, etc. If he is PERFECT, the man of your dreams, right in every way, etc I would notice my own faults more when I compared myself to him. Sure, if he was perfect and my dream guy he would love and adore me no matter what but being an imperfect being like everyone else and definitely not a dream girl it would be strange in my own mind.

Perhaps I am being a little pessimistic? lol

 

He cant be too perfect
Tall with huge muscular arms and legs , he dosnt need a 6 pack
protective
a gentalmen
funny
a littel jelouse bcuz it can be cute at times
a good cook
rich, wants to spoil me
faithfull and kind
manly and strong

 

Open-minded, creative, hard-working, respectful, sense of humor (and cute laugh), I like dark eyes and hair I can play with (but not necessarily long). Not too skinny, confident enough in his masculinity to listen to Tori Amos, Alanis Morissette, etc.... yeah. Dominant, but not afraid of being dominated.

 

you also posted this on another thread

and this

eat shit, spam bot

 

dream guy: my bf
looks: 1,89cm (6 feet 2??), toned, expressive eyes.

he's really smart, very manly with a strong personality (these traits made me fall in love with him)
he's also very loving, very protective of me, and we have a lot in common, and do many things together, he's also my best friend.
describing him reminded me (not that i had forgotten) of how much i loooove him!!!!

 

Close to the same height as me, hot body, healthy, dreaming pool blue eyes, harmonizing magnetic personality, high intelligence, spiritual/God conscious, empathetic, pragmatic, creative/artistic in his own way, smells like sex....

Longish hair a plus, as is wearing clothes that look good on him but not required.