Anal Sex As A Requirement For Marriage

Perhaps I am not the only one who feels this way, but I believe that if a girl won't let me in her butt, no way in hell will I get serious enough to want to marry her. No anal, no marriage. Do any of you guys share my sentiment?

 

RIght with you buddy! I dumped a girl because of it. I dont want to cheat if I am married, so either give it all up, or Ill find it somewhere else.

 

I think it's essential for the success of any couple married or not that both of them are getting their sexual needs met, whether it be anal or something else. I knew a couple where the husband would not go down on his wife, and she wound up cheating on him.

I personally like anal a lot and would find it hard to be married to a woman with no anal, but that's my preference. It's the same thing for my wife, if I stopped doing her in her butt, it would be a big problem for her, because anal is really the only way she can orgasm during penetration.

 

its the same with my girlfriend..she make really serious problem if i give her only vagina sex and stop giving her anal sex for few days..even she can orgasm in Vagina, she would be very unhappy and once she cried when i stopped 3 days giving her het favorite pleasure: anal sex !

 

Having my penis in somebody's anus is not something that I consider a pre-requisite for happiness, nor do I consider somebody willing to allow me to insert my penis into their poop chute necessarily an ideal partner.

There is more to life, and love.

 

Hahaha.. Awesome thread.
No, not too crazed about buttsex. It can be fun, I'm sure, but as was pointed out, such a petty thing shouldn't be necessary for you to be happy.

 

While I'm not super into anal (it's fun, but not something I NEED), I do agree that if your partner is not into your kink and you are trying to have a monogamous relationship, you're headed for trouble.

ps: Face Eater, your signature is hilarious and appropriate :rofl:

 

I agree, it could be anything else. For instance if you like blow jobs and your partner doesn't do them, this can be a real problem. Or if your a girl and you like to get eaten out and your partner won't go down on you.

I will agree there is A LOT more to love than sex, but sex is still important part, if you guys don't see eye to eye it can cause problems if one partner feel unfulfilled, and it can result in adultery. It's hard to have a fetish and have it go unfulfilled for 20, 30, 40 years or more.

If you have a MAJOR fetish for anal, and your partner does not like it, that will be a real problem down the line. I could be in a relationship without anal, but I would prefer it be there if I had a choice, it's not as serious for me as it is for Backdoor Man, to each their own, I'm not hating.