parents going to drug test/farewell for now

me every few weeks from now on.

so, i'm doing what i planned to do anyways, (minus smoking with friends), and put all my economical efforts elsewhere in the world of drugs.

a few of you probably know what i'm talking about.

anyways... i'll be back in a few weeks... see you guys.


EDIT: they also think i have like... mental problems... lol. fuck you mom and dad. they think i'm like, unhappy and shit, and need to talk to them more. bullshit.

 

you can still come here , and not smoke

 

^ that's true. best of luck to ya.

 

it's too tempting. lol. first thing i want to do when i get on HF is light up.

 

Yeah a lot of parents of my friends have gone straight to psychological issues. They need to understand that just because people like to have a good time and do something harmless like inhale an herb it doesn't mean 'the worst'.

 

lol i know what you mean, i almost always come on HF when im startin to feel the pull of the MJ...

 

Good luck with the break.

Don't be so quick to say fuck you to them.. they're just playing the role of parents.
How often do you talk to them? Do you actually push through what your intentions are? Do you talk to them just leisurely occasionally, or only when you get in trouble/they ask shit?

Parents will be parents.

 

in my small personal experience (um, 1 parent usually around), your old man and old woman will always tend to think you "don't talk enough to them" if you dont have these long and deep conversations. sometimes you just straight up dont speak the same language as your folks, or at least one of 'em, and it makes it pretty tough to really talk.

try havin a conversation about something, but really... i have a feeling parents just have a bit of a hard time adjusting to what appears to be a very sudden change in their children growing up. of course, it's good etiquette to talk more than just a "hi", "nothin", or when you get in trouble... can save you dealin with shit in the long run.

EDIT: um, when i say you "don't speak the same language" it's just an expression i use for people that are impossible to communicate with until you really really make an effort to learn how they think.

 

it's not even about rope... yeah they want me to stop, but the psychological thing is completely seperate.

they think i have no interests, just because all i do is go hiking, listen to music, and chill with friends... and they think i don't talk to anyone about like... my thoughts and stuff... which is very wrong, i just don't talk to them about it...

i don't talk to them much because all mom does is buy me shit, and i just don't agree with her on a lot of subjects... and i hang out with my dad, because he's super-cool and he understands me more... but dad, who i thought was OK with me toking, really just hasn't told mom so we can keep going to the beach and other reasons- basically because he's pussy. but he's still a really awesome guy and i respect him, i have reason to, unlike my mom, all she does is threaten to take things away...


i've hardly said more than 3 words to anyone in this entire fuckin' house in 3 weeks because i just am happier, everyone makes me miserable.

 

yeah man looks like some shit to work out, at least a bit. you're 15, so probably not moving out anytime soon. moving out to me was beautiful, i began to establish a wonderful relationship with my dad where before there had been mostly bad feelings. distance cures a lot of parental problems.

just be civil and polite to your mom in a sincere way, and keep chilling with your dad. venture a couple words about feelings n thoughts, you dont have to go the whole nine yards or whatever the fuck that expression is. try to spread some love in your house, even if it's just you. share something other than words, like time, or art, or some shit, as cheesy as that is. parents love that.

 

Good post. Instead of getting angry, try to relate to your parents and then talk to them openly about things. Then when they see you are trying to understand their point view or at least you acknowledge and respect it, they will be more likely to relate to you and treat you with more respect in return, instead of the old "because it's my house, my rules" shit.

 

Thats shitty dude.Hope everything works out for ya.

 

didnt you once make a I hate my mom thread?

 

that sucks man...just try to be decent to them and hopefully it will work out well enough.

 

i did...

this is why.

hate was way to strong of a word. it should have been like... annoyed...

i was really realy pissed when i made that and i regret it.

 

:rofl:

 

lol

 

I hope shit works out for ya! Good luck and hope to see ya back soon

 

How did you gte busted?

 

last post here until a few weeks from now:

no i didn't get busted, but I just come off as a stereotypical stoner... my room, i burn a stick of incense a day, tapestries all over my room, i wear a hemp/mushroom necklace... it's a given

they've just had enough i guess... even though i'm making all A's in school and am in all honors/AP classes...