The ones i dig seem to be big fans of Tool that is to say the band Tool. Weird stuff if you ask me. Guess i just know how to pick em. Anyone else experience some weird coincidence like that?
I just havent explored them thoroughly. Ive heard a few of their songs and i liked them and i agree the lyrics are good. I like A Perfect Circle, they have the same singer dont they?
You just have to remember if you give them $ thats probably the only reason she's talking to you. Strippers are easier to get if you don't shove $ in their face of course enough $ would take the adventure and chase away. Anyone who hasn't had a stripper w/o forking over cash for it should try this, nice challenge to sit and watch ppl throw $ at girls thinkin' he's gonna get somethin special only to find out at closing time that he is broke w nothin but ur dick in ur hand to show for it. Take the $ out of the game maybe buy a drink (some places serve virgin drinks to the strippers for double the price of ur coctail, and others have alcohol.) although this does still mean your paying her cuz she gets a cut of that it's not the same as actually handing them money, so u take the money out of the equation and thats your first step, the rest should be easy to those not afraid to talk w half naked girls. You have to remember that strippers go to the club to make money, not meet men, and spend their whole night being hit on by "customers" keyword here, by not being her customer or not asking for a lap dance makes you different. Anyways thats been my experience as I been on both sides been the broke guy but it's much more fun to be the other guy, cheaper too.
Btw when these girls first start talking about something they are feeling you out and seeing what kind of common ground they can relate to you, this meaning if YOU brought up Tool and seems like something to talk to u about all girls are gonna "pretend" they have something in common/talk about w u to try and make money. So remember to not be a customer and a lil bit of flirt/smooth talk should have her. You are interesting to her b/c your not being "just another customer." Ps: Most strip clubs have other things to do besides get lap dances, trust me your more likely to get some by asking her to play pool instead. This is of course for those that are going to a club to try an pick up a stripper, those going for the lapdances have fun foreplay is good for the soul. Starting to think I should write a guide on this lol..
Been there done that as a naive young man, started out going to topless bars and strip clubs and all I ever went home with was a hangover and empty pockets. Most of those girls are very good at what they do and make a lot of money doing it. I can,t fault them but sure did learn to keep my distance LOL
i would have never mentioned tool because im not a big fan. So the customer (me) wasnt right about anything.
Depends what mood I'm in. I don't spend money I don't want to spend. Even when I go to a casino I have a set limit for that day, and I've never gone over it, usually under, same with strip clubs. Although my limits may seem a bit high to some guys. Usually if there's a hot stripper I want I'll get to the point and go to the back room. My max is $60, sometimes if I'm not feeling too hardy I'll just pay her for the 3 or 4 songs ( strippers tend to give you a freebie for every 3 ) and maybe look for another one. I usually go with friends so we sit and talk while watching the catwalk. When going with friends it's much easier to stiff a stripper, and by that I mean underpay her. I have a lot of friends who will go for a stripper after scowering the place and the not pay her after 10+ dances. I can't do that, they are working girls so i feel I have to give them something. However if I'm in a hardy mood I'll make sure to go in gym pants and put on a condom, get my dances until I bust from the constant thrusting and pay her $20-$60, tell her I'll need to go out to my car to get the rest and she should stick with my friends and leave. They will usually pull similair stunts afterwards or just leave behind me, etc Some strip clubs ban you for this but usually if you skipped out completely and on a big bill and you were alone. Whereas if you go with a group of friends and some of your friends paid full and you paid 30-50%, they won't care. Only the strippers care and if you do it to them more than once. I remember one time I went to this strip club I had been to just a month before and the stripper I jibbed remembered me, that was weird, but she didn't ask me for the money I didn't pay her, she asked if I wanted another dance. The thing is strippers get jibbed more than once. Most stripper don't remember half the guys they stripped for, especially if you take at least a month break from going there. That was my rant.
LOL max you got a whole system going. the last time i went to a strip club was like 8 yrs ago. they just don't do it for me.
take the cash out? maybe a drink will keep them there for the drink,but as soon as they figure there is no cash, they are on to next custie. they "work" at club. not just drop by. My g/f of 6 yrs is a dancer. not stripper. and i'll tell ya , she knows how to work the floor. If you get a dancer to stay for more than 2 drinks without cash, place is a dive. my g/f would be upset if she came home with less than $600 anight for takin her clothes off. she's such a good girl. love her
