With a few girls I've been with, when approaching sex, I am all for it while still clothed I get really hard and than when i'm naked with said girl my dick just doesnt want to get hard and it takes forever to and when it does it is not its full potential at all. It is extremely frustrating, I think of it as torture because I want it so bad as it is right in front of me waiting. I was just in a relationship for 5 months and it did happen a few times with that girl but I got used to her and it was really easy for me to have sex with her after we were both comfortable. It has been a couple weeks I think since we broke up and I had sex with a different girl twice but it was this problem I stated above, which makes me feel like I am incompetent which isn't it at all. I really think it is just not being as comfortable with this girl and I just mindfuck myself over it. I also have trouble peeing in front of people, say I am at a urinal and doing my thing and a guy goes to the one right next to me my dick instantly shuts off. I have a hard time peeing in a cup too especially when I had to drop to get drug tested because they are in the same vicintiy waiting on me to put forth piss in a cup. My body won't allow for that shit. I would appreciate some feedback/opinions, thanks.
I'm like that too! Sounds to me like you're horribly self conscious. This is how I solved the problem- Blindfold her and go to town. if that doesnt work Fuck her in the dark. Start pitch black, I'm talking cant see your hand in front of your face.Then gradually start turning the lights up. The blindfold can be a better alternative as a dark dark room is dangerous AND she might think you think she's not attractive enough to screw with the lights on.
