On my crushes birthday a few months ago, this girl wrote on his wall on facebook, 'well happy birthday you bisexual twat<3.' He didn't write anything back. Then tonight, she answered a social interview question about him on facebook. The question was, 'has so and so ever done anything nice for you?' She responded, 'yeah prob, he's bi' Her response made no sense. Now, I know he does joke about gay stuff sometimes, and his family uses the term gay if they think something is weird(like, that's so gay). My point is, if he is bi, wouldn't you think the family wouldn't use the term gay out of respect for him? He plays sports. He has guy friends. His mom told me over the summer that she overheard him and his brother talking about girls, and if they would ever bring them home or not(if the girl was their girlfriend). I don't think he is bi, but do you think the girl was just joking? Do you think he's bi? I mean, if he was bi, I would assume she would be smart enough to not broadcast it on facebook. There's nothing he does that would make me think he's bi.
bi/gay guys play sports and also have guy friends! that's really weird that his friend was saying 'oh yeah cause he's bi' so probably but hwy would anyone say something like that
Chances are he was infact giving advice to his brother about girls. But dont let bisexuality put you off hey. Haha totally chance of a threesome nar kidding but theres nothing wrong with bi guys. Or you can just ask him thats a easy way to do it. haha
First off, FaceBook, as with MySpace comments aren't to be taken so srsly. Second, look at the definition of "Bi" So many ppl hear "bi" and immediately reduce it to "gay." Bi means he likes girls, likes to fuck girls or at least fantasize fucking girls. Bi also means it is easier to be in the closet with family and friends. He may be one of those basically het guys who is bi curious and just toys with sex with guys. There are so many nuances with sexual orientation and it is actually mutable, meaning changing from one period to another.
He may or may not be "bi". Since you do not know for sure; we do not know for sure either, and no amount of "collective wisdom" will help you here. Your true and relevant question here is "Does this guy care for me" "Do I have a chance with him?" So, you put out your feelers, make it all sound cool and natural, and you draw your conclusions. Coz, he really may be bi. For all I care, he may be as gay as Christmas, but that alone won't take you anywhere, unless he is into you. And you are smart enough to connect. KD
