Reasons to make me think my crush is straight: -His fb(facebook) says that he's interested in girls -His family uses the term gay, as in, 'that's so gay.' (Wouldn't his family not use that term around him if he's bi?) -On fb, some of his status's have been stuff like, 'is loving the big cock.' One other status of his was 'just came out of the closet...' and his sis commented, 'good to know' and his friend commented, 'congrats man call me sometime'(obviously joking). -Over the summer, his mom told me and my mom that she overheard my crush and his 11 year old brother talking about girls, and if they had a gf they weren't sure if they would bring them over. -He plays sports. -His fb status now refers to breasts. -He dresses very athletically. -He liked a girl his senior year of HS. -As far as I'm concerned, he has never done anything with a guy.(How can you know your gay or bi when you haven't even experienced anything with a guy?) -As far as I'm concerned, he doesn't know and isn't friends with any bi or gay guys. Reasons to make me think my crush is bi/gay: -His voice is kind of high pitched. My point to this whole thing is, this girl(that he isn't good friends with. I would just say their acquantinces) wrote on his wall on fb a few months ago, 'well happy birthday you bisexual twatt<3.' He didn't write anything back. Then last night, she answered a social interview question about him that read, 'has so and so ever done anything nice for you?' and the same girl wrote, 'yea prob, he's bi' Her response didn't even make any sense! I don't know why she's calling him bi. She's the only one that is calling him that. Maybe it's a inside joke between them or something. My question is, by the info I provided, do you think he's bi?
Are you a girl or a guy? If you're a girl: -Does it really matter if he's Bi? Just ask him out and see what happens. Just cos he's Bi doesn't make him any more likely to leave you for a guy than a straight guy would for another girl, yano? If you're a guy: - You should probably bring up the facebook stuff and just ask him is it true. If he says no then you'll hafta believe him. If he says yes then go for it Hope it helps. I spose its easier to type advice rather than to follow it through lol. G'luck.
Why do you think only bi dudes have high pitched voices? Also, plenty of bi dudes play sports and dress athletically. It's not like straight dudes have a monopoly on being masculine, etc. It seems like you want to be told you have nothing to worry about -- your crush is obviously not bi. But why should it even matter? If he's bi, he likes both girls and dudes. So either way, you still have a chance with him. I don't see this as a bad thing. --QP
I so know where your coming from Stephy....the guy i like says he likes girls on facebook, and he comments on peoples pictures like 'you look well gay in this pic anything you wanna tell us' and he's really into sports and stuff....but i know its a load of shit because I've had sex with him over a dozen times! Believe me, when your having sex with a guy who writes shit like that on facebook and stuff, its even more frustrating than how it is for you now. Anyway, maybe this girl knows he's bi? It could be that he told her, or she figured it out herself and is teasing him? Who knows?
That's not a reason to think that someone is bi / gay. Come to think of it, most of your reasons for thinking he's straight aren't really valid either. It doesn't matter, anyway. Try asking him.
