my secret is driving me crazy

ok first thing im a 20 year male and i never even kissed a girl.
im in real good shape and go 2 the gym 4 times a week.
but any way i seem to be thinking alot about girls aged 15/16 yearsold alot. but i still like older girls too just not as much. like when i was walking out of the gym today and walking past the pool changing room there was a gril about 15years old and she look at he then look again and said hi i said hi back then walked out. but what i really wanted to do was bring her in the changing room and make out and maybe even more. some times it drives me crazy thinking about these girls. so any thoughts and what u like im dealing with here or help my feeling go away?

 

It's possible you feel you are at an experience level of a 15/16 year old and therefore are directing your thoughts towards others the same "age". The thought of starting out with a girl who has probably already done these things may be too daunting to face.

 

find a girl 18-20 or so man, once you start hangin with girls your age itll be different.

i agree with Macca though, you are just looking for someone around your same experience level - there are inexperienced girls out there around your age that you will be comfortable with

 

thanks guys but i have a problem with finding a girl. the thing is i left school about 4 years ago and left behide the only girl for me when we were in school she would ask me stuff and she all ways wanted me to walk her home. then ring me up and ask if i wanted to go play football or some sport. and i know she liked me and i liked her alot. when i left school i was working and never looked back but i was all ways thinking about her, but now 4 years on iv never spoke to her iv seen her about the town a bit because we live in a very small town. i look on her facebook from time to time and when i do i find myself not getting a hard on but turning on love music and thinking about her so much i cant even sleep. I think no i know i love her but now she has a boyfriend and stuff she's 19 now and so beautiful and i think she's the only 1 for me. i dont think i could fall for a girl other than her

 

any1 out there that can help me with lets say the1 that got away
iv never spoke to any1 about this b4 so it would be a real help

 

Interacting with others will help you move on. Just because you're still wrapped up in her doesn't mean she was IT for you. I do wish you the best of luck but sometimes you've just got to force these things.

 

Just trust your instinct.

Your mind knows best.

If it says "rape", then it's probably right.

 

well, i think in your case an animal sacrifice will do the trick.

step 1- procure an animal (goat, rabbit, dog, cat, penguin, etc), get a ritual blade
step 2- take the animal to a giant stone deep in the woods
step 3- spend all day pampering the animal with food and loving attention
step 4- at sundown slit the animals throat, deep and quick
step 5- as the blood runs down the stone look into its eyes and ask the animal for what you wish. be with the animal until it dies.
step 6- funeral pyre



like i always say... if you're not willing to kill for it, then you don't want it bad enough.

 

even if that other girl is the "one", that shouldn't stop you from going out and meeting people. You must have friends, I can understand you not wanting to say you've never kissed a girl to your friends but you can use your social connections to go to parties or at least hang out with other people. Most basic start, is with your friends having friends around helps makes you more confident and more resources. That girl who is the "one," you might want to befriend her as just a friend but if she ever got back on the market wouldn't you want to be experienced and confident?

 

Hang around girls your age, and this will change. I won't say your wrong because you have an impulse that you haven't acted on, but don't do it. For someone that's 20, 15 is just too young for some because a lot haven't fully matured yet both mentally and physically. All in all, just start hanging around more girls that are aged 18-20 and you'll forget all about the younger females.

 

statutory rape... or someshit like that, not exact sure how to spell it... but i agree with the person who said maybe you feel at the experience of a 15/16 yr old, find an easy girl, get some and see if that changes.

 

are you implying that rape is acceptable here?

 

hey... i don't think you have a problem finding a girl... you said yourself that you wanted to make out with that girl you saw... next time you find yourself in a position like that, say something else to her... strike up a conversation... you don't have to do everything at once...

the girl that got away?... well i think you should forget about her in that sense... she is with someone else now... it wasn't meant to be... i can see how easy it would be for you to have gotten fixated on her though... she was afterall the only girl to have got close to you... let her go... there will be others... just takes time in the natural flow of things...

:chillpill:

 

I got similar thing, maybe not 15 but 17-22 is my favorite age. Iam not at all atracted to girls over 30.. maybe with very few exceptions. In my case i think its because i started my sex life early (16) with even younger partner... but since you say you dont have any sexual life it will be something else:

EXPLANATION:

Dont get mad about it but i think it goes something like this: Due to experiencing years and years without girl you are getting less and less confident. So you are consciously or subconsciously affraid of older women. (they might be too clever, they might be more experienced than you etc...) On the other hand young 16yr old girl is the symbol of pure innocence and naivity. She will never outsmart you, she will never think you are corny, she wont laugh at you, she wont dump you, cheat you etc. She will love you. So even if you thing you are atracted to lets say small butt. Subconsciously that small butt is just representation of this idea of a small naive girl that you dont have to be affraid of.

If you admit that, it can help you a little but not much... You know why? Because it is all true. Young girls really are like that

So what do you think?

 

there are petite ladies 18-and oldr that wont get you in a world of shit if you have sex with them----and a boyfriend? no ring? alls fair in love and war but if you wont even talk to her you gotta move on---luck with that----love hurts--sigh

 

haha shame on you :toetap05:

he's jokin...

 

I think what he meant was, "if you're mind say's "rape" than your mind is probably correct about the situation and you should not continue".

That's what i thought he meant.

Edit: although it is BSR, he does like his shock value.

 

rofl!!!

What?!:d

 

between step 3 and 4 draw a pentagram on the stone of execution.

 

I know how this feels and gets even worst and you see she's found a BF. try getting with other girls.