Jealous women

What are your thoughts about them? What do you do when they say a harsh comment or act jealously?

I dont like em. They lack confidence if they feel the need to bring down other women. I just brush it off or put them in their place

Jealousy occurred a lot in high school. I, myself am not usually a jealous person, I wouldnt call someone ugly in their face or bring someones looks down if I that was my last resort

But I'd like to hear your thoughts and situations

 

i don't feel like everyone says "harsh" comments because they're jealous...
i think looking at it that way is more high school...


i have never thought to myself that someone calling me any sorts of bad names, ugly, stupid, fat, weird, whatever it may be, was because they were jealous. if that's how they feel it's their opinion. some people keep them in, some people let them out.

 

I always thought so. I think resorting to a woman's looks to make her get mad is a bad bad choice. Actually the women who call women ugly or any other are themselves very ugly in my eyes.

it happened every time I got into an argument with some chick. (this is why im not friends with many of em) once the argument got to a low point and about to give up. Theyd add "well you're ugly!" like a little 2 year old. Honestly it made me laugh

and I suppose it has to deal with how you were raised too

 

well sometimes people say "you are ugly" and they don't explain if they feel that they are ugly physically or mentally.

through out middle school and high school i heard girls calling each other names like that. that's why me myself have never gotten along with many girls and only have a couple of girl friends that i actually wish to talk to.

i think that if you're raised with respect you wouldn't say such things.

i do say people are ugly... but that's because i personally think they are.. and it's rare i actually say it. i know i have my own opinion, so i feel if i'd really like to express something i'd say it.

 

yeah it def has to deal with how you were raised honestly. 90% of it and the other 10% is accepting it and having respect.

I honestly cant remember last time i called a girl ugly in her face, I dont know. I just cant do it

I see my sister do it all the time, even with me nd all I can say is WOW.

 

well i mean some people deserve it... some people that have mad attitudes and think they're hot shit when they're not. the ones who have sex with a bunch of guys (and they're only sleeping with them cause the girl is easy) and think they're sexy because of that. those girls need to be told something.

others don't deserve it at all, if you don't like someone, even if you think they're ugly, there's no reason to tell them they're ugly unless they are doing something in the genre of physical looks

 

lol well i just call them girls ho bag idiot broads. Some do if theyre asking for it.

I dont mind confident women, theyre the best kind but how they portray their bodies and how they use em, in a bad or nasty way, then they deserve to be called what ever because theyre asking for it

 

jealousy is such an infantile emotion, very indicative of a weak mind and i cant be bothered with such nonsense, it would be like arguing with a rock.

 

I look at it this way, the day them bitches stop hating me is the day I stop being sexy enough for them to hate!
hopefully that makes sense

 

I have had lots of problems with women being jealous of me. Either because of my looks or because I am naturally thin and don't have to watch what I eat (or work out). I was recently in rehab and while the girls were nice to my face, I'd hear them behind my back saying that I can't just be that thin, that I MUST have an eating disorder and they would stare at me alot with this blank look. Some even compared their looks to mine. Saying that my skin cant possibly be this good natually and that I lie when I say I use nothing on my skin at all. I've also delt with the jealous ex girlfriends. To me these girls are insecure.....period. They aren't happy with themselves and misery loves company. I'm totally happy with everything about myself and I've never had jealousy issues with other women. The few girlfriends I do have are not the jealous type....I learned early on that those types will go as far as to TRY to make you look bad so that they look better. I wish all women would accept themselves for who they are but life isn't just that way I guess.

 

I avoid jealous women when I can. Usually a sign of some trauma in their history and baggage I really dont want to carry. Life's way too short for that business.

 

I guess I don't understand what you mean by jealous women... What specific kind of jealousy are we talking about here?

 

Oh shit I understand you girls so bad!

All my life I've had jealous girls picking on me. The strangest about it is that I have a very unconventional physical appearance, I'm taller than most girls (and many guys too!), sturdy, muscular and chubby, with lots of tattoos and punk-rock/goth elements in my look. I never spend a lot of time without a date though, so I guess that's where the jealousy comes from. I remember once at one of my previous workplaces, a girl talked shit about me to my supervisor about how I'm always having dates and she had no clue how I could attract anyone and such. No need to say that the girl's supervisor heard about it pretty fast! What a douchebaguette. :smilielol5:

I'm usually excluded from groups of girls at my workplace (or anywhere else really), they tend to get together and diss me. It used to hurt me but now it makes me laugh, it's so pathetic. I decided long ago to take full advantage of it, while they're altogether busy saying shit about me I talk and have fun with the boys. Things are doing way better for me since I took that decision, jealousy is still there but I couldn't care less. Ex-girlfriends are a pain for me too, especially if they're thinner and "cuter" than me. They tend to react super bad and go like "what? you dumped me for THIS?", without understanding that their good looks are not enough to keep a man by their side.

Oh well. Bitches. Will they ever get it?

 

So true. Most of the time they don't feel good in their own skin and when they see a girl with something they wish they had for themselves (thin body, large breasts, long curly hair, etc.), they tend to get jealous and hate this person for that. But it's so pointless. Being jealous won't bring anything good, it won't make them be thinner, or look better, or attract more boys around them. In fact the opposite happens, jealousy is such a negative feeling, it makes them repulsive. They hurt themselves and hurt others uselessly.

 

Lets start a eugenics program to eliminate jealousy. First we need to round up the usual suspects....

 

Jealousy is a weakness in both sexes. Any strong signs of jealousy in a relationship from either side point towards the fact that the relationship is doomed to collapse.

 

Everyone gets jealous.

 

no just you, really. I read it somewhere

 

Brilliant point there.
Absolute, flawless argument.
I'm so jealous.

 

I don't, but I'm special.