The chances are that "a straight acting gay guy" you'd love to play around with ain't out either, and/or would therefore, not wish to associate with another male of his age and status, who is. Life would be simply too easy and somewhat too perfect, if the simple act of coming-out landed you a hot guy knocking on your door, eager to mess around with you. That really ain't gonna happen. If you need a dude to play around with, get your act together, and hunt your man down. If you do not have access to gay bars and clubs, earn and save up some, and hit the next metro town. Hit your dating portals, too. Make sure you present yourself well, and you'll be surprised at how many men will show interest. In other words, like with all the other good and valuable things in life, getting sex often means working very hard towards your goal, giving up on some other life's pleasures, showing unabating sense of self-discipline, to name the few... all in order to get where you want to be So, get goin' KD
Yes! You're right! It's time I stop wasting my life away on these websites and go out there and get one (a life, that is lol)! Lethal. Thanks mate.