Is it wrong to go back for a teacher after graduating?

So When I was in h.s. as I've confessed before. I had a huge crush on my math teacher. I knew it wasn't a good idea to say or do anything about it at the time do to the potential loss of her job and reputation if she ever did go through with it.

But lately for some reason she's re-entered my thoughts. I mean...fact of the matter is I don't even really know this woman outside of a school setting.

But I can't even dream of a flaw she'd have in real life. She seams so perfect. I always felt a connection between us, and we even chatted for a while via email a few months ago.

I'm wondering now...Should I go back? Email her again? make up some bullshit lesson I supposedly got at college just so I can ask her to tutor me?
What do you guys think? Girls too please.


Would you go after a teacher you fantasized about after you graduated?

 

I probably wouldn't do it, but if you really want to go for it. It might be a little awkward but awkwardness isn't going to kill you.

 

Well, you're no longer her student so it's a fair game as far as I'm concerned.

Would I go back? I might, sure... But then I never really had a crush that big on any teacher when I was in high school, so my answer wouldn't really have the same weight as those who have had big crushes on teachers.

 

i had 2 teachers i had the hots for in high school, and both were fairly young.
my best friend and i shared these things and we were all about it.
uhhh the one, my best friend in high school made a move on him right before she transferred schools the beginning of our senior year? or maybe the end of our junior i don't remember. but senior year i had a class with him and he would always talk to me about her, if i'd stay after and wasi n the weight room he'd come and work out next to me and we'd chat and talk about her... they probably woudl have sexed if she didn't get pregnant and married before her 18th birthday.
the other teacher his sister went to my school but was a grade under me so i never really talked to her, though we did have some mutual friends. i was never in this guys class but my sophomore year he started to say hello and then junior year i was one of my highschool's football managers/watergirls and we got to go on the field and hang out with the team, got to leave school early ect ect and i'd talk to this one teacher. we said hello in the halls all the time and if i was talking to someone or he was behind me he'd poke me and wink and stuff blahblah. anywho, i dropped out of high school my senior year and i was out getting waterice with my boyfriend at the time but he didn't wanna get out of the car, so i went to get our stuff and the teacher was there :drool5: and him and i were talking and he goes 'is that your boyfriend' and was asking all of those personal questions and i was like why does it matter and he goes you could do way better than that haha.
one day i ended up at his sisters house with a friend of mine and he was there for a little bit, he told me to call him by his first name and we were flirting hard. if only i was 18 at the time



oh and i had this student teacher once... well he was in my study hall advisor. he'd tell me he was sad when i skipped and he never wrote me up. he told me where he worked other than as a sub and he was my 3rd grade teachers son. he would tell me he loved when girls had tattoos and piercings and he was pretty hot, i was bummed when he left.

so i mean... go for it. i totally maybe would if i saw him. well only the one, the other one him and i got on a friend level but he's still a pretty cool dude.

 

She has to be over 7/10

 

I wouldn't do it cuz my math teacher was married and I came out of hs a loser (no car, job, prospects). But if I had a shot I maybe would.

They're fair game after they're done teaching you!