I feel so lonely, and i'm thinking about him all the time and he doesn't know about it! What am gonna to do?? How to Show a Guy That You Like Him??
Three words: 1. You 2. Tell 3. Him As for details like how, when, what to say, et cetera: well, they're details. They will depend on you and your particular situation. But the bottom line is, if you want to let someone know how you feel, you have GOT TO COMMUNICATE. Maybe that means telling him point blank. Maybe that means asking him out on a date. Maybe that means flirting with him. Maybe that means suddenly grabbing him by the collar and kissing him on the lips. The point is, you do what you gotta do.
i'm in exactly the same situation. i saw her, at most, once a year since we stopped seeing each other 4 years ago. then i saw her yesterday at the gym. we worked out together for an hour and talked. i realize again i'm madly in love with her and i couldn't even sleep last night because i was thinking about her so much. the only way i know to contact her is by email, once i figure out what to say...i'll email her. i'll keep it short and sweet. and if she breaks my heart again, at least i will have loved.
actually, we were on spin bikes. i invited her to do a private spin workout with me. i teach spin classes so i was kinda ordering her to ride up mountains and stuff. we could only tak when we weren't riding up mountains.
so yeah, i sent her an email. i kept it short and sweet. i didn't make it gushy or lubbydubby so i wouldn't scare her off. but i told her it was a nice surprise to see her and that she's one of my favorite people. i said we should talk over a cup of tea instead of while sweating on spin bikes. i hope it works out. and even if it doesn't, it is what it is... btw, i'm glad i had some sense about me to not spill all my emotions in one email. that medium of communication can feel so contrived and insincere. besides i wouldn't want to hand her my red and beating heart just so she can squeeze the life out of it in one snide email, although thats not her style.
but i'm so nervous to tell him what if he says something that i don't like it . I can't ask him for date isn't usually guy things to ask a girl out
Well, the chances are always 50/50...unless you know for sure the feelings are mutual. When you ask someone out, there's always the risk of the other person's turning you down. When somebody asks you out, they are risking your turning them down. See, it works both ways just like that. Now the question is, are you going to tell him and realize your dream, are you going to tell him and crash and burn, or are you just going to turn your back to the unknown? The unknown can either be good or bad, but you won't know which one unless you try to find out. Put it this way; you have the LUXURY of being able to actually ask him out. Some people don't have that because their crush may already have a partner. Plus, ABSOLUTELY NO ONE has ever officially said guys HAVE TO be the ones to ask girls out on dates. Meaning, go right ahead and ask him out on a date. If you want, make it casual. That way he won't be too intimidated by the idea...IF he's even the type to get intimidated by the idea of dating that is, lol. All the best!
cupy! come on, just ask him out! i asked mine out... and well it was a pitiful attempt really. but i'm not gonna pursue it. she never got back to me and she probably wont. i had my chance in high school and missed it for one reason or another. don't let it pass you by.
