Ladies: How Often Do You Fantasize About Sex?

Discussion in 'Love and Sex' started by Imagine11, Nov 30, 2009.

  1. Imagine11

    Imagine11 Member

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    How often do you fantasize about sex?

    What kinds of fantasies?

    Of course it comes and goes, but do you feel overall your libido is pretty strong?

    This article in the NY Times:

    http://www.nytimes.com/2009/11/29/magazine/29sex-t.html?pagewanted=1&_r=1&partner=rss&emc=rss

    talks about "hypoactive sexual disorder" in women, which may soon be listed as an actual disorder, with pharmaceutical companies plans to cash in on it not far behind.

    It says "women feel plagued by low desire," but admits this is not physical but mental. I wonder if they're representing a woman from a certain kind of context, where her sexuality is repressed by cultural forces and by disconnection with her own body. This may be true of the researchers as well. So, that's the perspective.

    What do you think of all this? Any thoughts on the article?
     
  2. DazedGypsy

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    i don't buy into the disorder propaganda.. i think that's bullshit. i do believe either hormonal issues or mental issues will effect the libido.. thankfully i don't have this problem, i have the sex drive of a 16 yr old male and it's awesome

    i think about sex a lot.. sometimes more than other times, based on my hormones i think.. fantasies about men or women i see, fantasies about my past experiences, other stuff..
     
  3. YouFreeMe

    YouFreeMe Visitor

    Mmmm, daily!
     
  4. Imagine11

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    Thank you guys. I thought as much. Keep them coming!

    YouFreeMe, the text in that cartoon is so brilliant. Is that Calvin and Hobbes?
     
  5. YouFreeMe

    YouFreeMe Visitor

    Yes, yes it was Calvin and Hobbes. Always brilliant.
     
  6. _orgazmik_

    _orgazmik_ o_O

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    some days i go all day without thinking about it, then there are some days when i wont leave my head.
     
  8. Imagine11

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    Thanks orgazmik. And buttrfly.
     
  9. Yummy Ukulele

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    On average, AT LEAST once a day. Usually as I'm relaxing in the evening and getting ready for bed or, strangely enough, during my sociology class.
     
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