I don't think I want to fall in love.

Yeah. Just keep fucking up. What else are you gonna do? That's pretty much the whole thing, isn't it? Having someone to love?

 

Your only doing that because people have told you that's the right thing to do.

Have you ever been extremely drunk?? Actually wait... you obviously haven't or you wouldn't be a virgin still.

I'm not trying to be rude... The last thing I said was sort of a joke.. A true joke though..

 

Fuck that shit, just listen to your heart, everything will fall into place. But you must also look.

 

It's funny, she is a 16 year old girl talking about her feeling towards relationships and everyone wants to talk about if she should fuck or not

 

from what I remember of high school, the average "relationship" lasted about two weeks.

And she's not talking about relationships, she's talking about love. The rest of us are sceptical cos a lot of the time when a girl says "in love" she really means "in heat"

 

Actually no. All of my friends are telling me I need to have sex with my best friend Nick, my mom was kinda a hooker in highschool and she's too busy yelling at the tv to notice much, so she doesn't really care and the rest of my family doesn't really either.
Actually, I think the only persn who cares is me.
I don't want a twenty minute relationship and get fucked over and then sit around and wait for the next asshole to do the same thing but in record timing. I want someone who actually loves me, whom I trust and know will be there in the morning when I wake up and wont abandon me saying "You suck in bed, I'm leaving you."
I want something real and I know I wont get that until I'm at least out of college and if that means staying a virgin until I'm out of college, so be it. I don't really have a sex drive anyways.

 

That's not what I meant. I meant society.

Religion has taught people that sex is a dirty thing until your married. You think sex is supposed to be some loving thing that will change your life forever.

It will change you but love has nothing to do with sex. It's just a complete coincidence that most people are in love when they have sex (or think they're in love).

Do you think back in the begining of time cavemen had to give girls flowers and take them out to dinner? No, they just grunted at them and fucked 'em.

Love is all in your mind.

 

I'm old fashioned. I like believing in love and thinking you should have sex with someone you love.
Especially seeing as oxytocin is released in a chick when they have sex or babies and stuff, making you chemically love that person. I don't want to chemically love someone I don't emotionally love.

 

That depends on the person. There's tons of hookers and shit like that who will fuck just for money, they don't care about love. I've met plenty of girls who will just fuck when their horny and not care about love.. Everyones different I guess.

And I'm not trying to be funny when I say that.

 

That's just a silly myth. A bit of simple observation will show that.

 

you're young you don't even need to be thinking about love it'll bring you down

 

I get attached to a guy just by talking to him. Or having him do a sweet thing like hold my hand. Especially considering that I loved someone I never met in person and was completely dedicated to and all we did was send one another email's about our days and lives and blah, blah bullshit.

I'm pretty positive that if I had sex with a guy I didn't love, I'd go insane thinking he was repulsed by me and never wanted to see me again unless it was for nookie related reasons.

 

You're really adorable. You shouldn't be so insecure. I know where you're coming from, it's happened to me too. Seems we want someone to share our lives with, to be our companion on this journey. Some do a better job of it than others. Keep the faith.

 

Read arthur itis's post number 12.Then read it again.and then again.Try to understand it and take it to heart.When you do ,you won't give a shit what other people say.Including me.My 2 cents

 

You know that periods are supposed to be followed by a space, right?

 

I only did three?
Oops. I thought I did four. If It's four you can do it because it shows that your leading to something else, but ending it with the last one.

 

Just don't worry about love dear just let it find you.

 

I was talking to scratcho

 

no one wants to fall in love and risk the chance of being hurt or left alone that is a pain that is almost unbearable but i think you need to ask yourself when you are happiest in your life when you are in love and you see everything in rose-tinted glasses or when you are alone and you see the world as a cruel and unforgiving place it is your decision

 

your 16.