i just found all the searches and pages my bf was making for porn on my computer.... and why does this make me a little heated???
Ive never understood why some women get upset about this. Masturbation is recreation. Porn is a video(or what not) containing people preforming recreational activities. You could have sex with your boyfriend 23 hours a day and he would still find time to masturbate to porn. Though I would be upset if it was on my computer, because horny guys attract computer viruses.
i was more mad that it was my computer he was using for that. He has a computer...i just dont want to run into the exact time and pages he was looking at on my google chrome. id rather not bother with it.
That was pretty rude of him to use your computer... my ex boyfriend did the same to me and I totally got a virus from it. I'm glad my current boyfriend doesn't like porn.
No, we live together and share a computer and we are in a one room place... so I think it would be pretty hard for him to hide it and we generally spend all day together, so there wouldn't be time. He just has better things to do with his time.
My ex used to watch a bunch of porn on my computer. It wasn't so much the fact that he was into SO MUCH porn...he would lie about it and not even be smart enough to cover his tracks. lol Not to mention the viruses and all that crap I had to deal with.
Use Linux. No more viruses. Yes, I'm derailing a thread about relationships into a discussion of operating systems. Deal with it :hat:
People always try to say that every guy is into porn... but it's not true. Don't judge everyone by your own standards. I told him it was cool if he was, but he just isn't so it works out for everyone.
It can make a woman feel a little inadequate when her boyfriend enjoys watching another, possibly physically better woman naked, having sex, and performing acts he obviously is envisioning are upon him. Not saying this is totally logical or that all men driven by this but it's a simple fact that humans are jealous and insecure. Often.
I'll go with Louis C.K.'s response to being caught masturbating "Well, do you think of me when you're doing it?" "Huh, what? No. Are you fuckin insane? I can think of anyone when I'm doing that, that's fuckin magical, why would I think of you"