I recently told my friends about my sexuality and I mess about flirtatiously with guys a lot and two of my friends have told me, who are guys, have been telling me that if they were single (they both have girlfriends) then they'd do a threeway make out with me, but I'm not sure if they're joking or not. If they're not joking then hell yeah I'd go for it, but if they are joking, I'd look like a complete dick cause I'm really serious about it.. Not quite sure what to feel atm.
well perhaps 1: their not taking you seriously or 2: their trying to be supportive or their just joking, its really hard to tell unless your their to feel the vibe. if its something your interested in, let them initiate it, and if they talk about it, you can try and hint. PM me on the forums, or IM me on yahoo/msn at sobesemail@yahoo.com if you want any help or advice on a personal level in the future (thats for both yahoo and msn(
Look, Pretty young guys can be sometime a bit more cruel than you would normally expect them to be. So, yeah, the chances are that they are kinda a mildly joking, while actually testing the grounds carefully. Now that they are talking a threesome here, the chances are that they may be quite comfortable with each other in sexual terms, even tho they both have GFs. I would not attach too much importance to all of that banter, tho. The best way to figure them out would really be to separate them, and end up with one of them in private. If the dude is willing to put his money, where his mouth is... all is good. If not, he'll keep it quiet, coz he would not want to embarass himself. Taking on the two of them at the same time, would always give them the winning edge, as people will always trust more them (as in the 2 of them) than you alone... So, be careful and use loads of common sense... KD
I wouldn't mess like that with my friends for the sake of the relationship. Sometimes it just goes downhill after something stupid like that. Just joke with them and if they are serious they will ask you more seriously.
