ok so my girlfriend and i have tried to have sex a couple times and the problem is that whenever i go to put it in it hurts her a lot and she cant seem to get past it. unfortunately we've tried to "just do it" and what ends up happening is she bleeds all over the place. so i think what the problem is is that she must have a very strong hymen. so i was wondering if any of you out there know of any tricks to stretch out the hymen to make it easier for penetration? and feel free to ask me any specific questions cuz i know theres not a ton of information to go on.
How many fingers can she fit inside her vagina without feeling discomfort? Stretching is something you want to do little by little. For instance, if you're not flexible and want to be like a gymnast or a ballet dancer sort of flexible, you need to do A LOT of stretching exercises for an extended period of time. Trying to achieve this over night will most likely result in your getting injured. Since your girlfriend seems to have a pretty persistent hymen, how about taking your time stretching? I would suggest about a month or two of regularly stretching her hymen with something smaller than your penis to start with obviously. She could use her fingers during masturbation, and dedicate a portion of each session specifically for stretching out her hymen. She should make this a daily habit until she's able to fit at least three of her fingers inside her comfortably. Make sure she doesn't try stretching it too far too soon! You could also help when you're manually stimulating her as well. Just be gentle enough not to make her bleed. In this case, you want to STRETCH her hymen, not tear it. All the best!
Well that is quite helpful lol. but to answer ur first question ive really only been able to fit one finger in at all. i tried using both of my pinkies but it seems that wont even fit. but i will definitely tell her she needs to do some stretching to make sure we can get to the point where it doesnt hurt for her. and also i dont think were going to be able to wait a month but we will shoot for 2 weeks or something like that. she wants to do it just as much as me so itll be pretty hard to keep her off of me. lol
damn just one pinkie? ive got alot of sex under my belt with some tight chicks--but one pinkie would be a record for me---i wouldnt do it without at least 2 fingers and her digging that---sex aint supposed to hurt unless your S/M
hey guys great news! me and my girlfriend had sex! last night actually and it wasnt bad. and tonigh we had sex again too for like an hour. but the only problem is now is that i cant cum. like its so fucking frustrating and i need advice like i dont know what the fuck is wrong with me. i might go see my doctor about this cuz its so frustrating. give me advice on this thread or you can go in the "orgasm" forum and look at the "very frustrated" thread which is where i also posted. i really need help guys and i appreciate all the advice youve given.
How old are you? Most young guys tend to have the opposite problem. Did you take any drugs? Viagra, for instance, makes it harder to cum.
im 18. its pretty fuckin odd right? i dont know if it might be a problem with my sensitivity because its near impossible for me to have sex with a condom which is why my girlfriend is on the pill
